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postr/StutterOct 14, 2017
11 points

What have YOU done today to improve yourself?

What have YOU done today to improve yourself? A lot of you come here to whine and complain about your stutters. Blah blah I can't talk, blah blah job interview this, etc. But what are you doing to ac...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 14, 2017
5 points

There's no cures. There's different treatments that work depending on the type of person. Personally, my cure is to reduce my social anxiety and that's by going out and talking to people. Gaining conf...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
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commentr/StutterOct 14, 2017
2 points

Glad to help. I used to stutter a lot with self-talk too, but now I do it so much, I stammer less. (Obviously learned how not to let others over hear me talking to myself). It's become second nature. ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionExperiential Association
commentr/StutterOct 14, 2017
1 points

Thank you so much for the advice. I do talk to myself, though I need to practice more because I still tend to stutter even when I'm by myself. ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionExperiential Association
commentr/StutterOct 14, 2017
2 points

I Remember doing a job interview, it was a group interview and there was another candidate next to me. Stammered a couple words and interviewer was like... "Thank you for your time" Thrn the intervi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & FluctuationFluency Techniques+3 more
commentr/StutterOct 14, 2017
1 points

I have English and German classes in school (I'm Danish) and I have the same issue. I'm really good at both languages, and I know how the words are pronounced but it's just harder to utter than my mot...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSituational Variability
commentr/StutterOct 14, 2017
1 points

Thanks for replying! I do tend to use "bridge sounds" and for me, it's words such as "like" and "so." This is useful whenever I'm not having severe stutter, but it becomes displeasing to both me and ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesMindfulness & Breathing
commentr/StutterOct 14, 2017
1 points

Hey thanks for the reply! I have been really having a rough time these days because everything I try to get involved in requires a lot of talking. I just tend to break down whenever I open up about m...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 13, 2017
1 points

I'll just throw it a guess here. My native language is English and I studied Spanish in highschool. I wasn't great, but decent. I stuttered a lot more though. I've done speech therapy in English but ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSituational Variability
commentr/StutterOct 13, 2017
1 points

I studied English through video games, manga and anime. Now I'm pretty much fluent when it comes to reading and writing. But the speaking part is still very hard and I don't think I'm making normal pr...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionSituational VariabilityRepetitions & Prolongations
postr/StutterOct 13, 2017
6 points

Stuttering more in learned languages?

Stuttering more in learned languages? I stutter and whenever I try to speak a language that I'm learning (be it English or Japanese), my stutter gets worse. It makes me unable to pronounce the words ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionPropositionality & Weight
commentr/StutterOct 13, 2017
1 points

I was taught in speech therapy to use “bridge sounds” (idk if that’s the right term) to bounce to sounds that are hard for me. Like W’s, which sometimes even as an adult I’ll have to start with saying...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesMindfulness & Breathing
commentr/StutterOct 13, 2017
2 points

I apologize if this is super TLDR. Don’t give up hope! Job hunting or even first meetings (like dates, first days of school ect )are definitely harder for anyone with a speech disfluency. Believe me,...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCommunity & Support
Avoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & FluctuationValidation & Empathy+3 more
commentr/StutterOct 12, 2017
2 points

Welcome to the Community OP! I found the best way I cope is exactly what you did, be open about your stutter - Let the person know who you are talking to that you have a speech impediment, then a norm...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 12, 2017
2 points

No need to apologize at all. Sharing thoughts about our situation gives me enough comfort. When you describe yourself, it's like you are describing me. After I opened up about my stuttering, I found t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionValidation & EmpathyAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 12, 2017
1 points

I feel the same way. I'm sorry, but I don't have much advice to give you. I'm struggling the same way you are. I used to hate talking to people, and was very paranoid and anxious about stuttering in f...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionValidation & EmpathyAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 12, 2017
2 points

Thanks for the reply! Whenever I catch myself with a block, I try to stop, inhale and try to go on, but this becomes harder for me to do the less familiar I am with the person who I am talking to. I ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 12, 2017
2 points

Keep trying and don't give up! Try to build yourself a network of people who can refer you into your next job. For me, my first job after college was the hardest to land, after that I built connection...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
postr/StutterOct 12, 2017
5 points

How do I deal with blocks?

How do I deal with blocks? Hello Reddit! I am new to this community, and I wanted to get some insights on dealing with my stutter. I am 21 years old, and I recently became very open about my speech i...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterOct 12, 2017
7 points

Failed job interview; Feeling hopeless and depressed

Failed job interview; Feeling hopeless and depressed Today I had a job interview at toys r us and it went bad when it was time for me to speak. It was a group interview and when it was my turn to intr...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+2 more