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postr/StutterAug 19, 2017
5 points

Books I Read - That I Highly Recommend!

Books I Read - That I Highly Recommend! This is a long overdue post from me. People here know me to share information that is somewhat unique to this subreddit. It's finally time to tell you all whe...

Coping & AdvocacyCauses & Variability
Mindset shiftSituational VariabilityMindfulness & Breathing
commentr/StutterAug 16, 2017
2 points

You're welcome. Anything you do to avoid is generally harmful because it reinforces to yourself that stuttering is not ok. You can't really accept yourself and be comfortable about who you are as lon...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & PrideMindset shift
commentr/StutterAug 14, 2017
7 points

Hey. I know this probably won't mean much -- I'm a random person who's never seen this sub and got here from browsing /r/new -- but I hope as you grow older you can eventually find confidence through ...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Hope & MotivationMindset shift
commentr/StutterAug 12, 2017
2 points

I abandoned Tinder quite a while ago. The people, from my experience, are mostly shallow and shitty. All I got off Tinder was a few one night stands. Might depend on your age group also. I'm in my...

School & WorkCoping & Advocacy
Employment & CareerMindset shift
commentr/StutterAug 11, 2017
1 points

Yep, takes a lot of fucking strength to keep that mindset. Maybe as we get older it'll be easier to deal with......

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 10, 2017
2 points

Thank you! I'd like to encourage everyone that if you've struggled your entire life with something, it can be defeated. Decide to make positive strides towards your goal and keep going. You have to...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Hope & MotivationMindset shift
commentr/StutterAug 9, 2017
2 points

Well, I believe it has to do with the built in meditative aspect as well as building the mind body connection. Before, I had a lot of fear when I spoke. Especially, around certain people. Now, I'm ...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 9, 2017
2 points

I feel for you man. I've been there too. Moreso when I was a teenager (I'm now 25). But, unfortunately, you'll stay in this rut if you continue with this mindset. That's right, the way you view yourse...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 9, 2017
1 points

He's not going to get over it by hiding, though. The water's cold but there's only one way to get in it. He will be worse off in the business world when he graduates if he's still hiding from his fear...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shift
commentr/StutterAug 8, 2017
3 points

I personally would advise on just doing it anyways. Most of the stutter comes for me when I'm literally dreading for it to happen. Think of it as Nacebo to an already big problem. Your stutter exists ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 7, 2017
1 points

It could be worse then! I suggest taking a constructive thought approach to it than an emotional one. We often automatically emotionally connect to past events when in the grand scheme of our lives th...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterAug 7, 2017
1 points

It is quite the uncomfortable situation, but things happen in life that we cannot dwell on. I always ask myself if it's the situation that is making me uncomfortable or whether it's my response to the...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterAug 7, 2017
4 points

*As a disclaimer I typed this up a few months back, and it's quite heavy and direction-lead, I don't mean it to sound like an order, it's just what I did personally, other things may work for you too ...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Mindset shiftMindfulness & BreathingHope & Motivation+2 more
commentr/StutterAug 7, 2017
8 points

It will be less awkward the next time, and the time after that. You have to accept your going to stutter in front of people. The more you do it, the less fear and shame you will have, and the less you...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideAvoidance & SubstitutionMindset shift
commentr/StutterAug 6, 2017
27 points

We've all been there at some point. It's something in our life that we cannot control, and unfortunately we continue to go about our days longing for it to change when in reality it never will without...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & AdvocacyCauses & Variability
Hope & MotivationMindfulness & BreathingMindset shift+3 more
commentr/StutterAug 2, 2017
1 points

Hmmm. I see where you're coming from. If you've watched past videos of mine, I explain that the way to improve your quality of life comes from: meditation, yoga, breathing exercises, expressing grat...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindfulness & BreathingMindset shiftHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterAug 1, 2017
1 points

Can totally relate to this. Especially when I stuttered as a teenager. Everything comes from the mind. When you lose sleep it affects the way your brain functions. Which then affects your thought pa...

Causes & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Energy & Biological RhythmsMindfulness & BreathingMindset shift
postr/StutterAug 1, 2017
1 points

Three different stories related to stuttering and confidence - which do you prefer?

Three different stories related to stuttering and confidence - which do you prefer? Hello dear people. A while ago I posted a story for an animation project in design school. (https://www.reddit.com...

Community & SupportCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Personal StoriesMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterJul 31, 2017
2 points

There is Hope!!

There is Hope!! Wow, it's been a while since I was last here. Hope you're all doing well! Let's jump right in - and talk about hope. Or, rather, the lack of hope we feel at our worst speaking moment...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Hope & MotivationMindset shift
postr/StutterJul 29, 2017
14 points

“Never forget what you are. The rest of the world will not. Wear it like armor, and it can never be used to hurt you.”

“Never forget what you are. The rest of the world will not. Wear it like armor, and it can never be used to hurt you.” ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAcceptance & Pride