I abandoned Tinder quite a while ago. The people, from my experience, are mostly shallow and shitty. All I got off Tinder was a few one night stands. Might depend on your age group also. I'm in my 40's. I've had my best luck off of OK Cupid. I've had a few relationships that lasted from a few months to a bit over a year. As far as your profile goes....uh. A few suggestions I can think of. People love confidence so write it when you're feeling good about yourself, when you're having a great day and generally rockin' that shit. Especially if you're a guy trying to attract women, confidence bordering on arrogance. But be honest about it. I'm a professional chef and I threw in a comment about being one of the best chefs I've known. Don't be self-deprecating. Talk yourself up a little, but, again, be honest about it. Think of it as kind of a job interview. Pictures...4-5, or preferably more of your best shots you can find. Pictures doing things you enjoy. With kids and puppies/kittens = lotsa bonus points. Don't mention your stutter in your post. There will be time after you've reeled her in a bit to approach that. When you do, mention that though you do have a stutter it isn't that bad and it doesn't really affect your day to day life too much. Dunno how much that'll help, but there ya go. Good hunting!