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commentr/StutterJan 9, 2020
2 points

I don’t know if I would. I mean I know I’ll stutter on it every now and then (my stutter seems to get worse when I have a cold or flu), but I feel I would significantly less. If it does stem from my p...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Feared Words & NamesSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterJan 9, 2020
2 points

This is exactly how I feel most of the time. Them: “Hi my name is such and such” Me: “Hi...” Then I feel like an idiot and all day everyday for days if not weeks and I go over and over it every s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 9, 2020
2 points

What happens when the fear moves to the new name and you begin stuttering on it again?...

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commentr/StutterJan 9, 2020
3 points

yesss, my name starts with an I and ugh I get alot of blocks with it. I elongate it but it's embarrassing...

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commentr/StutterJan 9, 2020
2 points

It's something that crossed my mind. But ultimately I couldn't think of any name that was both noticably easier to say, and still felt like me. In my job introducing yourself to new people is very ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
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commentr/StutterJan 9, 2020
4 points

It’s certainly an idea but the new name may then become a problem word. I guess a name is a problem word (for me anyway) as it’s not a word that can be substituted. It gets better with older age and...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesShame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterJan 9, 2020
77 points

Got called “drunk” on the phone

Got called “drunk” on the phone I was at work today talking to a client on the phone, and my stutter was so bad that they called me drunk. I tried my best not to cry and held it together, and I put hi...

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postr/StutterJan 9, 2020
7 points

Has anyone changed or wanted to change their name because of their stutter?

Has anyone changed or wanted to change their name because of their stutter? I’m at a bit of a crossroads. I have a stutter but I’ve become so good at managing it over the years that many people I firs...

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postr/StutterJan 8, 2020
2 points

Does anyone else experience this?

Does anyone else experience this? I’m currently 17, have had a stutter since around 4 years old, and I’ve never heard of anyone else who stutters having the same symptoms as me. I didn’t start gettin...

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postr/StutterJan 8, 2020
8 points

What motivates you to keep on living ?

What motivates you to keep on living ? Seriuosly my stutter these days is just so severe that all my hope for future is eradicated. I just have no motivation whatsoever to keep on living. Im all alon...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesHiding & ConcealmentPropositionality & Weight+3 more
postr/StutterJan 8, 2020
3 points

I just found out I have to do a presentation in french at the end of this semester.

I just found out I have to do a presentation in french at the end of this semester. My stutter isn't that prevalent but when I do presentations it really tends to come out pretty noticeably. Almost no...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
postr/StutterJan 7, 2020
27 points

i need help, i feel so depressed and hopeless

i need help, i feel so depressed and hopeless 17f hey, so i currently have a job (apprenticeship) within the field of admin work. i’ve been here 2 months. my job involves basic admin tasks, which is...

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postr/StutterJan 6, 2020
26 points

this is ruining my life and has been for a while now

this is ruining my life and has been for a while now Today was our second day back at school after break and I had a very embarrassing moment in front of my class. We had to introduce a friend in fron...

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postr/StutterJan 5, 2020
44 points

Starting my new job!

Starting my new job! I got a job as a dental receptionist and I start tomorrow! I’m really nervous but I hope to work through my stutter and overcome it. My biggest concern is answering the phone (th...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 5, 2020
2 points

I do understand, although not as extreme, what you're feeling. Stuttering sometimes makes me feel dumb, worthless, like a joke, destined for nothing, etc. But then I remind myself of my accomplishment...

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Feared Words & NamesSeverity & FluctuationValidation & Empathy+3 more
postr/StutterJan 5, 2020
10 points

Refusal To Text

Refusal To Text People who are in my life know that I struggle with the phone, but some of them still almost refuse to text me, knowing that I struggle, and still call me primarily...and then wonder w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterJan 5, 2020
42 points

i’m sick of this

i’m sick of this 16M been stuttering for as long as i remember. just really needed to vent i’ve been holding all this in for quite some time. i usually stutter through blocks and lately they’ve gotten...

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postr/StutterJan 4, 2020
51 points

I have a date tomorrow, and I’m worried about how my stuttering is going to affect it

I have a date tomorrow, and I’m worried about how my stuttering is going to affect it Hello, I’ll start off by saying that I’m a 21 year old girl. I’ve never been on a date before but I finally have o...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
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postr/StutterJan 4, 2020
7 points

Help with blocks

Help with blocks Hello my fellow stutterers, I‘m gonna start with a little background story: I‘ve stuttered my whole life. Did a lot of speech therapy when I was a child and some more in my adolescenc...

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commentr/StutterJan 1, 2020
3 points

My stutter didn't onset suddenly, but had an interesting start. I stuttered in elementary school but it kind of went away around 2nd grade. I was stutter-free for a couple years, and then I met a fr...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySpeech & Stuttering
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