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commentr/StutterMar 11, 2022
2 points

>Reading out loud in front of people, or talking to big groups of people without stuttering I agree, it helps decrease hesitancy thoughts. Problem: 99% of stutterers doing deliberate exposure do n...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionPropositionality & WeightAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMar 11, 2022
2 points

> I second guess every sound I make (causing a stutter). " I second guess every sound I make (causing a stutter)." In my opinion, even if I don't try to 'second guess' or look for stresses but I ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 11, 2022
1 points

If you are 'new' trying to speak fluency it's possibly tensing of face. If you thought about fluency a lot, then it's not, then it's definitely 100% psychologal because you hate stuttering and not al...

Speech & StutteringCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Physical TensionTrauma & PsychologicalAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMar 11, 2022
1 points

I agree, your mindset is that if you speak fluently, then it's weird, it's not a habit, it's not your way of speaking. Of course all these thoughts (somatic memory) makes the stutter worse. You even ...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Cycles & RandomnessAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMar 11, 2022
1 points

I also think it is somewhat impossible to hide a stutter so it's a losing battle. Not to be crass but it is a little bit like when bald men or fat chicks use old pictures on a dating website. The trut...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMar 11, 2022
1 points

When I don’t stutter (rare) after a few minutes of talking fluently I come to realization that maybe I’m not thinking clearly. Scares me at times...

Identity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
Authenticity vs. MaskingCycles & Randomness
commentr/StutterMar 10, 2022
11 points

Stuttering on purpose has been one of the most empowering challenges I've done in my journey to have effortless speach. It allows you to see stuttering/peoples reaction to it from a clearer perspect...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAcceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMar 9, 2022
1 points

You said "I have the opposite feeling" I agree! I'm sure that all stutterers (also me) feel more clear, together and as a whole when speaking fluently. You are 100% right, I agree because I experienc...

Speech & StutteringCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Blocks & StoppagesCycles & RandomnessAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMar 9, 2022
1 points

>everything feels so much clearer. Even my thoughts feel more together. I feel whole. I agree! I'm sure that all stutterers (also me) feel more clear, together and as a whole when speaking fluentl...

Speech & StutteringCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Blocks & StoppagesCycles & RandomnessAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMar 9, 2022
3 points

What type of techniques did you practice? Does your speech sound natural? That was always my issue with speech therapy—the techniques made my speech sound unnatural, and it felt even worse than stutte...

Therapy & ProfessionalIdentity & Disability
Positive Therapy TechniquesAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMar 9, 2022
5 points

Because I’m smart, but I don’t sound like it. I want to sound like my true self so people can know the real me and give me credit for it....

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 9, 2022
21 points

A stutter won't stop you doing what you want - it's *how you feel about it* that can hold you back. I'm a covert stutterer. I spent years avoiding having to talk in case anybody heard me stutter. It...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingMindset shift
commentr/StutterMar 3, 2022
2 points

While that can be true, I personally feel you give your stutter so much importance that it blinds your personality. Regardless of how much weight the stutter has, your personality will always outweigh...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterMar 3, 2022
19 points

I don’t want to be like this.

I don’t want to be like this. I started university this year, and apart from the fact that I’m lazy af and I barely do any homework, my stutter is isolating me more and more, I seem stupid because I c...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
postr/StutterMar 3, 2022
3 points

Sometimes making fun of others is better than hiding it.

Sometimes making fun of others is better than hiding it. # Please read the full article. **First, I introduce Myself:** I have had Lisp and Stuller issue since a child or you can say from last 20 yea...

Therapy & ProfessionalSpeech & StutteringAnticipation & Avoidance
Therapy ExperiencesPhysical TensionAvoidance & Substitution+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 3, 2022
4 points

Oh, I can relate to that and as a stutterer myself I can suggest the following: - Do not sweat it that much - Do not try to hide it from the audience - Be open about it - Eventually you realize that ...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterMar 3, 2022
3 points

> Why does that mindset improve your speech exactly? For me, my path of accepting stuttering has nothing to do with improving my speech. I think that kind of thinking just goes around in circles....

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMar 2, 2022
2 points

Sadly, they'll never truly be able to understand completely, but you can certainly talk to them and discuss it. Being open about it might actually have a positive effect and cause you to be more fluen...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAuthenticity vs. MaskingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 2, 2022
1 points

I guess what confuses me is responses like 2c and i. I, Myself, always stutter. So of course I always try to speak fluently and not purposely stutter depending on the situation so I don't understand "...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 1, 2022
7 points

I understand people want to be nice to stutterers by trying to calm us down telling us these things, but I'd say many stutterers don't want it to be brought up like its this big thing people can hear ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAuthenticity vs. Masking