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postr/StutterJul 12, 2024
22 points

I think more jobs turn me down due to my stutter

I think more jobs turn me down due to my stutter I've been unemployed for 16 months due to the birth of my daughter. I had to relocate and quit my job and I'm pretty much starting over from scratch. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 11, 2024
3 points

I’d guess you have a covert stutter, where you have more blocks than repetitions? You probably avoid/switch words to get through a block? Saying your name and other unavoidable words are *noticeably* ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 11, 2024
1 points

They gonna think less of you subconsciously either way. Probably even more of they don't know you have this handicap....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 11, 2024
3 points

I try not to disclose it because I feel it subconsciously influences people to think less of you. Or at minimum feel pity for you. Sometimes it’s unavoidable, then I just take off and run away like Fo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterJul 10, 2024
14 points

Please help!!!

Please help!!! I feel my stuttering has got worse the past two years. I started isolating myself and don’t like socialising anymore. Attending functions and introducing myself has become my most dread...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAdvice Requests+1 more
postr/StutterJul 9, 2024
9 points

Can't say name

Can't say name I feel like my stuttering has gone worse throughout the years as I became more self concious. I stutter with people differently. With my family(sister and mom), I stutter on only a few ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterJul 9, 2024
7 points

I had an in-person assessment centre today and stuttering wasn’t an issue

I had an in-person assessment centre today and stuttering wasn’t an issue For me, the one place where my stutter rears its ugly head and can be uncontrollable are in job interviews/assessment centres...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentHope & MotivationEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2024
11 points

This is a very important question, and very important in learning how to cope/heal with the condition. Most humans who speak also speak with repetitions, prolongations, flubs. George Steohanolopois ...

Speech & StutteringEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Repetitions & ProlongationsAnxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2024
4 points

It’s okay to ask for help sometimes man. You got this. My stutter usually flares up when I’m at restaurants so my girl has to order for me. It was embarrassing at first. But now we laugh and make bets...

Community & SupportEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Advice RequestsAnxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2024
2 points

I remember when I started my first job after graduating. I was supposed to answer the phone “Computer Department, <my name> speaking”. There’s no way in hell I could do it, but I had to answer the p...

School & WorkAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2024
2 points

For a few months, while blocking, I bit my cheek and got ulcers. I consciously stopped doing this because ulcers suck. Generally try to stop pushing your tongue up against your teeth. This will not h...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Physical TensionAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2024
10 points

I would encourage you to get help. There are a lot of crisis helplines (ironically difficult for us to use) that could help you to reframe the problems you are facing. You are holding down a job whic...

Community & SupportTherapy & ProfessionalAnticipation & Avoidance
Advice RequestsSeeking TherapyHiding & Concealment+2 more
postr/StutterJul 9, 2024
50 points

Suicidal thoughts

Suicidal thoughts I’m a 28 year old male. I’ve stuttered my entire life and it makes life difficult. Yesterday I was having issues with my insurance and had to be on the phone with them while they h...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2024
2 points

Call pizza places, Chinese, restaurants, etc. Practice asking about specials. Start making an order, and abruptly say "oops. I gotta go. I'll call back" We're so wrapped up in what other people think...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJul 9, 2024
8 points

Can someone offer any advice?

Can someone offer any advice? I had a pretty severe stutter maybe 10 years ago while I was in elementary school. I then grew out of it as I got older but last year I recently noticed it was somewhat c...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+2 more
postr/StutterJul 8, 2024
16 points

literally cannot speak when i answer the phone at work

literally cannot speak when i answer the phone at work this has been a serious problem for the past few months. i've always stuttered but lately i cannot even start my usual greeting when answering th...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+2 more
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2024
8 points

Hey dude, it sounds like you’re going through it. I just wanted to chime in as I have some maybe, hopefully, helpful thoughts. I also have ADHD. I don’t have a stutter so not going to pretend I kn...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentNeurological & Brain+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2024
5 points

I can relate to this. I just hide my true self every time because whenever I do, I get excited or whatever and just stutter all over the place...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterJul 8, 2024
15 points

How tf I’m pose to live life with adhd and a stuttering problem ts bogus ash

How tf I’m pose to live life with adhd and a stuttering problem ts bogus ash I just wanna know who dealing with this shi to its like noting interest me I just graduated by the way and really tbh ion...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
postr/StutterJul 7, 2024
2 points

gmpros2

gmpros2 My response to article in The Atlantic by John Hendrickson (also a PWS) about President Biden stuttering –  [https://www.theatlantic.com/politics/archive/2024/07/biden-debate-stutter/678888/](...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more