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commentr/StutterDec 18, 2023
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So did strengthening/changing self-image decrease your stuttering, or just make you not care about it as much?...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Identity & Self-PerceptionMindset shift
commentr/StutterDec 16, 2023
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Your message is very helpful thanks! I think this question you’re raising is kinda the “catch 22” of stuttering. On one hand people often stutter less when they are speaking confidently. But as you al...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 16, 2023
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I find that affirmations only have any positive effects if they are realistic and if you are in a receptive state of mind. In fact, affirmations that go against a belief have the opposite to the inten...

Coping & Advocacy
Mindset shift
commentr/StutterDec 16, 2023
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I’ll tell you where I first started: the guy I mentioned Maxwell Maltz, he taught a technique called “theater of the mind”. That’s literally where I first began. And yes, I did incorporate positive a...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftFluency TechniquesIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterDec 16, 2023
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Sharing What Worked For Me: “How Learning About Self-Image Reduced My Stutter”

Sharing What Worked For Me: “How Learning About Self-Image Reduced My Stutter” Hi, Craig Coffee here. I stuttered since age 7 up through my 20’s. I couldn’t say my name; was teased in school sometim...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Identity & Self-PerceptionMindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterDec 15, 2023
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Tips to improve stuttering according to the book: The Way Out by Alan Gordon about neuroplastic pain (a conditioned response)

Tips to improve stuttering according to the book: The Way Out by Alan Gordon about neuroplastic pain (a conditioned response) This is my attempt to extract tips from the book "The way out" about neuro...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Trauma & PsychologicalAnxiety & Social JudgmentExperiential Association+3 more
commentr/StutterDec 14, 2023
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More attitude. I like it. As Beethoven said: "To play a wrong note is insignificant; to play without passion is inexcusable." I think this applies to speech as well. A little stumble doesn't matter...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftHope & Motivation
postr/StutterDec 13, 2023
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bein myself

bein myself helo stutter fam wen i embrace and embody my tru self , stuttering is no longer prohibitive anyone relate ?...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterDec 13, 2023
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bein myself

bein myself helo stutter fam wen i embrace and embody my true self , stuttering is no longer prohibitive can anyone else relate ?...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterDec 13, 2023
1 points

bein myself

bein myself helo stutter fam wen i am embrace and embody my true self , stuttering is no longer is prohibitive can anyone else relate ?...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterDec 13, 2023
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Don’t ever give up on yourself no matter how hard it gets

Don’t ever give up on yourself no matter how hard it gets I used to be embarrassed about my stutter & self conscious about it when I was growing up ..In middle school people thought I didn’t know ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentMindset shift+2 more
commentr/StutterDec 7, 2023
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I went to the same doctor and received the same treatment approach twice. Once in my teens. Then again in my 20s. It wasn't terribly effective in my teens. In my 20s I made rapid progress and achiev...

Coping & AdvocacyTherapy & Professional
Mindset shiftTherapy Experiences
commentr/StutterDec 7, 2023
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There is no magic pill. It will take lots of hard work and change in mindset. It will never go away but it can improve by orders of magnitude....

Causes & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Severity & FluctuationMindset shift
commentr/StutterDec 6, 2023
1 points

>*"I just need a confidence build up and help"* I don't know if I can give you helpful advice, but I've synthesized tips to increase confidence from various websites. My personal confidence tips:...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 5, 2023
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Suggest going back to finish it. If you continue to allow stuttering to be so emotionally charged for you, I think it will be difficult to overcome....

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Shame & EmbarrassmentMindset shift
commentr/StutterDec 5, 2023
1 points

I was always down on my stutter until I had a mindset shift: people WANT to hear you speak, YOU have valuable input and deserve to be heard, and if anyone laughs or judges then they’re the beta. This ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterDec 5, 2023
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Hey, this was Super Hard for me to do, till I figured out the “fundamentals of fluency”, or the philosophies and beliefs I developed about what it took me to get GOOD SPEECH in the “real world”. I do ...

Coping & Advocacy
Mindset shift
commentr/StutterDec 4, 2023
1 points

I call this "wrong think." Wasting energy and time worrying about something. Being miserable for who knows how long. All in anticipation of something that didn't end up being all that bad. Or dwell...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shift
commentr/StutterDec 4, 2023
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Fluency at All Costs is a belief I adopted, as I needed fluency in the real world. it may not be right for all people! It took me along time of daily working on my speech to get to the point of Fluenc...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 4, 2023
1 points

Congrats for showing up, and in your words "not shying away"! One of my biggest tips on HOW I overcame stuttering was doing what you're doing: learning to be kind to yourself. It helps to heal the neg...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideMindset shift