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commentr/StutterDec 17, 2024
1 points

Yup it’s the worst especially the first letter of my name is one I regularly block on. At Starbucks I’m called Marc because I don’t struggle with the letter M 😉...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterDec 16, 2024
1 points

The biggest thing I have learned over the years (all 50 of them) is to just stop. No matter how hard I would persevere and repeat myself or breathe my way through a block, the only way I learned to ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSeverity & Fluctuation+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 16, 2024
2 points

My name is short (4 letters) and I can only really shorten it down to three letters, but I could give that a go next time!...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterDec 16, 2024
2 points

As mentioned in another comment, I'm a regular at our coffee shop (it's a busy one so I can forgive them not knowing my name off by heart), and at least one of the servers know my name so I'd feel a b...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterDec 16, 2024
5 points

I'm a regular at our coffee shop, I don't think I could give a different name haha. There is one girl who knows my name now and bless her as it makes the whole ordeal much easier!...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterDec 16, 2024
3 points

Just say your nickname. Will for William, Rob for Robert. Just go by something else and when asked, just say yeah I go by that name. ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterDec 16, 2024
4 points

Just for fun & entertainment, the next time you order coffee at a cafe, why not give them a name you can pronounce easily? There is no law that says you can't assume a fake name to order coffee. If ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterDec 16, 2024
7 points

I’m the same way. I first try to start with “Yeah, my name is Cody” but if that isn’t working and I’m still struggling, I usually use another name like Matt or Mark. Something that I know I can say at...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterDec 16, 2024
54 points

Can't say my name

Can't say my name I grew up with a bad stutter, finally getting speech therapy during my teens after the teasing got too much. While the therapy wasn't an immediate success, I took the lessons to hear...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesDisclosure & Telling OthersHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterDec 16, 2024
1 points

Relapsing to me means giving into secondary characteristics like making faces, closing eyes tight, biting lip, avoiding, hiding repetitions in exchange for blocks, ruminating over scenarios of dysuenc...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
commentr/StutterDec 15, 2024
2 points

I was covert for more than half my life, so 30+ years. I felt like such a fraud all the time, but I thought it was safer than potentially looking stupid, or being humiliated. I lied to myself and trie...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride+2 more
commentr/StutterDec 15, 2024
4 points

Meh. I stutter pretty bad and I just flat out tell people. Especially when I’m having bad blocks. All my friends know. And people that I see/date often I tell them. Trying to hide it makes me seem ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
Hiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling OthersSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+1 more
postr/StutterDec 15, 2024
38 points

My bf doesn’t know about my stutter

My bf doesn’t know about my stutter Hi, I’ve been currently 1,5year in a relationship. It’s going really well. Not only in the relationship but also with hiding my stutter. Of course I’m having bad da...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 13, 2024
9 points

You are a “stop stutter”? Me too. Honestly I want to be able to go back to the repeated sounds instead of just looking like I’m thinking too hard, or working too hard to talk. (My opinion) I develope...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionRepetitions & ProlongationsOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more
postr/StutterDec 13, 2024
11 points

How can I stutter more gracefully?

How can I stutter more gracefully? I want to gently tap the repetitions so I don’t spit, bite myself, or have my eyes roll into the back of my head. I want to feel comfortable stuttering. Yes. The ki...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAuthenticity vs. MaskingHiding & Concealment+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 13, 2024
3 points

I’m speaking amongst my coworkers, but it’s not customer service oriented so less talking than say a retail/food industry job....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterDec 13, 2024
1 points

Yes, and it sucks because a lot of what I do can be critical. I work on the blue collar side of ExxonMobil. It's literally my dream job. I've worked industrial construction all my life and had a few i...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterDec 13, 2024
1 points

That's a good question actually. It went freestyle in my mind and i started to type longer than i expected, i'm sorry about it. So here is a short answer, you don't have to read the "brainstorming". A...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentPersonal StoriesHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 13, 2024
1 points

I think both! I had that same as you... well for me I had it bad as a child but at around aged 14 it was not too bad, but at sged 20 it got worse when i was told i needed to do a presentation at univ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterDec 13, 2024
13 points

I stutter and want a job (advice please)

I stutter and want a job (advice please) Hey, I am new here and would like to get some advise from PWS with a job or someone who can give me advice. Background: From the age of 5 I stutter, especiall...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentAvoidance & SubstitutionAnticipating Stuttering+3 more