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This fear of judgment I feel for me is coming from within you know like me unable to see myself vulnerable enough to stutter. There’s this resistance within that does not let me show any form of vulne...

>The only thing that is hurting your relationship with your parents is the fact that you think that you need to perform well to receive their love. Not really, they told me several times how bad i...

I think what’s happening is that as we all do, we have a natural inclination to want to impress our parents. Except every time you stutter you feel more in a deficit to pleasing them. This causes more...

Yea, I have before. I think it’s because the word “stutter” for us can be very charged with anxiety. If we are anxious about thinking about our stuttering, then the word “stuttering” isn’t neutral for...

this is so true. when i’m alone, i don’t stutter. when i’m drunk or get really angry, i don’t stutter either. i realize that when i speak to others, i tense up and i anticipate the stutter which makes...

I know the feeling ☹️ I’m a cashier so every time someone asks me for my name during phone calls I can’t say my name. Usually I’ll say “Its ____” instead of my name that way I can connect it with the ...

I can relate as well. I stutter when I'm put on the spot, interview, or public speaking. Just let the interviewer know beforehand (either when you're on call with them or with an email/text) and it sh...

The biggest thing that holds us back from expressing naturally (my opinion)

The biggest thing that holds us back from expressing naturally (my opinion) The fear of judgement is the biggest thing that holds us back from expressing ourselves naturally. This is why I don't agr...

I swear I can read ppls energies and if they are judging me or being rude that’s when I stutter but I don’t stutter around people who are nice and I’m comfortable speaking around....

I hate the fact is stutter - vent

I hate the fact is stutter - vent LIKE OMG. It’s soo frustrating! Why can’t I just talk normally? I have an phone screening for a job today and I have all my answers written down already, I just gotta...

I can definitely read people better than anyone else I know, but not through their reaction to my stuttering. It's just a trait I developed with time. I do think stuttering is related to this developm...

When I speak I see in peoples eyes and how they change, it’s not nice but that’s what anxiety leading into hyper mental detail does ig lol...

Has Stuttering given you a 6th sense about people?

Has Stuttering given you a 6th sense about people? Stuttering is something that I do not wish on anyone. Even if you have other family members who stutter mom/father/grandparent. Even when they shoul...

Ok, I see what you mean. But I think still maybe your body is not comfortable with excitement, so it makes you have a stuttering block to dim the feeling. Does this make sense? It happens to me to whe...

Firstly, stuttering is not *curable, and this is an accepted fact.* Secondly, sadly I can't provide you any kind of advice, because I'm still it university, but at least in my experience, even th...

I think it may have something to do with suppressing our creativity, individuality, and excitement as you said. And we have a fear of influencing others, such as making them laugh, because as someone ...

Exactly , and the moment when you stutter you could feel al those eyes pinning in your forehead it drives me crazy...

Yeap Ive gotten my stutter down to a mild/medium stutter and I'm a fairly confident person but quite often I'll sit out of banter with people because I just kill the mood. It's even worse if people ar...

Is it this hard to make friends in college or is it just me?

Is it this hard to make friends in college or is it just me? I’m going into my 4th semester in college, and so far I haven’t made any friends. The first two semesters were online because of the pandem...

My block is worsened by anxiety, but having the block is what makes me so anxious in social situations. So it's a vicious cycle. But it's not caused by anxiety alone. In situations where I'm completel...