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commentr/StutterApr 21, 2017
3 points

I agree with people. You have to fight you ego which will try force you to be fluent. Be upfront. Also if it helps. Really do your homework. Read about the company, about the job, know yourself, your ...

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commentr/StutterApr 21, 2017
2 points

Hey, I'm 19, got my first job at 18. I applied for everything starting at 16 and got no jobs because I guess I didn't have enough experience and the others dealt with talking to people so of course jo...

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commentr/StutterApr 21, 2017
2 points

I agree about telling the interviewer right off that you stutter. It will probably help some. I'm also wondering what you, OP, and other people on here thing of role playing the interview? Like ten...

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commentr/StutterApr 20, 2017
3 points

Hiring manager here. First, very sorry for your trouble. Second, I would not hesitate to hire somebody with a stutter provided the role wasn't reliant on quick communication. I can see some sales-rela...

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commentr/StutterApr 20, 2017
5 points

Tell them that you stutter right off the bat so they are fully aware but turn it into something positive,for example,that your a better listener,more inclined for teamwork,a people person,that your hu...

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commentr/StutterApr 20, 2017
9 points

You can't run away from something as important as work unless you're one of those fortunate enough to not need to worry about money. What you're experiencing is completely normal. I'm 30 & have s...

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commentr/StutterApr 19, 2017
3 points

Literally came here to say this. I got a retail job in October and the difference between then and now is crazy. My chest used to get tight and I'd get really anxious and sweaty when I had to make a p...

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commentr/StutterApr 19, 2017
3 points

Just keep pushing through and apply everywhere. People who don't stutter have as much anxiety as you if not more for other reasons. Just do it, you'll feel free and amazing, a different kind of high...

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commentr/StutterApr 19, 2017
3 points

Honestly, you just need to get over your fear and apply for a job. People don't care nearly as much as you think. ...

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commentr/StutterApr 19, 2017
4 points

I stutter sooo much, and I worked a commission only retail job for 4 years. For some reason when you are put in the situation and are forced to talk, it starts coming out and you will learn the right ...

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commentr/StutterApr 19, 2017
4 points

Hey man, I just turned 18, have a stammer (obviously) and work in retail! I actually just started less than 6 months ago and felt the exact same way before applying for the job, and I tell you, don't ...

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commentr/StutterApr 19, 2017
4 points

Life long adult (28) stutterer here. I've worked as a server for almost 9 years and a ski instructor for 5. Everybody deals with it differently, so how I dealt with it might not work for you, but I ju...

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commentr/StutterApr 19, 2017
6 points

Former severe stutterer, now mostly covert, and I've been in retail for 19 years, and eventually moved into management. It was pretty tough for me at first, but once I felt comfortable in the role, my...

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commentr/StutterApr 19, 2017
5 points

Start slow. I started off as a janitor at a casino, now I work as a banquet houseman at a luxury resort. Where I was then and where I am now is way different. I'm working a lot more and feeling way mo...

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commentr/StutterApr 19, 2017
5 points

My advice is to start reading out loud every day to build up confidence. You might have to settle for something like a janitorial or fast food job until you get more confident. You might also start lo...

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postr/StutterApr 19, 2017
10 points

I just turned 17 and I still don't have a job because I am anxious of my stutter

I just turned 17 and I still don't have a job because I am anxious of my stutter Most of my friends got jobs when they turned 16 while I couldn't even bring myself to apply for job due to embarrassmen...

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commentr/StutterApr 18, 2017
1 points

If your stutter becomes a topic of conversation, talk about your other communication skills and your ability to take responsibility. And in general play to your strengths. Make them want to hire you f...

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commentr/StutterApr 17, 2017
2 points

I think my stutter is considered mild and I think small doses of Xanax help me to be more fluent. I will take a .25 mg Xanax maybe twice a week. I don't have a set routine, I just wait till I start ha...

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commentr/StutterApr 16, 2017
2 points

Yeah it really sucks, having to put extra effort to do what normal people take for granted. It's like a race where we start several kilometers behind the others but are expected to catch up to everyon...

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commentr/StutterApr 16, 2017
2 points

I am uncomfortable talking about my stutter to anyone .. aside from my family. I don't think anyone at my work knows I have a stutter since I am fairly quiet, but even when I do talk I tend to use wor...

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