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commentr/StutterJan 2, 2018
3 points

1. You know all those daydreams and fantasies you have of being completely fluent, which makes you suddenly all suave and awesome, and then you ride off into the sunset on a dragon while perfectly rec...

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postr/StutterJan 2, 2018
2 points

Help with my situation - can't get a job, afraid I can't get a boyfriend, have no friends and so lost and confused with my thoughts

Help with my situation - can't get a job, afraid I can't get a boyfriend, have no friends and so lost and confused with my thoughts Hi all. Thanks for reading and replying in advanced. Looking for new...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
postr/StutterJan 2, 2018
5 points

Today I found out my boss can listen to my calls

Today I found out my boss can listen to my calls After I answered and redirected a call to our store my boss called me and told me how I could have said something better and told me how I could have a...

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commentr/StutterJan 2, 2018
1 points

In my job function, I can't stay quiet. So no, I wouldn't say that my stutter makes me quiet. It simply fails to be able to have that effect. I don't stay quiet in social situations either....

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commentr/StutterJan 2, 2018
3 points

I think about it pretty often. I think i would be quiet even without a stutter. I've had a stutter since i was 6-7 years old, it got a bit better over the years and now it's a mild one. I rarely stutt...

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commentr/StutterJan 1, 2018
1 points

I did not speak at all in high school. Now I am 46. If I am having a bad fluency day, I won’t contribute to convos unless I have to....

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commentr/StutterDec 30, 2017
2 points

Yeah, my husband didn't even BELIEVE me at first when we finally had a conversation about my stuttering. He genuinely hadn't noticed, even though I was struggling so hard to get a particular word out ...

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commentr/StutterDec 29, 2017
1 points

I have recovered from stuttering 100%. Stuttering had held me back, but only because managing my speech was draining my energy and focus....

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commentr/StutterDec 28, 2017
4 points

That’s very true, I usually only do it in one off encounters with work-staff who are on the clock or are pressed for time in some other way. I used to do this for strangers/friends in social settings ...

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commentr/StutterDec 28, 2017
5 points

I’ve been much more comfortable with stuttering once I just told people I stutter. My stutter is unique in that it consistently pops up in situations where I’m ordering from a restaurant, and like pre...

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Disclosure & Telling OthersHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterDec 27, 2017
7 points

I'm usually the one helping others here but today I felt truly defeated. I can't take this.

I'm usually the one helping others here but today I felt truly defeated. I can't take this. I don't know what to do anymore. I'm usually the one helping other stutterers out and giving them advice. I ...

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commentr/StutterDec 25, 2017
2 points

I have a good handful of close friends (and many acquaintances) but I only discuss personal matters with them through text. I could hold longer conversations that way, and I do trust my friends/feel c...

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Friendships & BelongingHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterDec 24, 2017
4 points

Complete vocal block comes and goes

Complete vocal block comes and goes Hi everyone I'm new to this sub but suffered from a vocal block for years, it goes sometimes but comes when I'm anxious and get worried about it (a lot of the time)...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 24, 2017
1 points

I had your EXACT problem a few years ago. Company name started with a blocker sound, 'C', it was an acronym so pronounced 'See'. S is a block for me. Several excruciating phone calls 'hello I'm cal...

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commentr/StutterDec 24, 2017
2 points

I feel ya! I was known as the girl who never spoke when I was in high school. I got bullied so much for my stutter that I just stopped talking. However, I am 46 now and things do get better, as ev...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterDec 23, 2017
1 points

Yes, this. Things aren't as poetic and dramatic in reality as what we imagine. Humility tends to go a long way too whether we want it to or not. In classroom settings people would assume I'm smart bec...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterDec 22, 2017
0 points

The only ONE

The only ONE I am very open about stuttering. I am confident about my stutter and carry this as a pride. I am not afraid or ashamed to speak in front of people, ordering food or talking over the phone...

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postr/StutterDec 20, 2017
31 points

I just found this sub and I've never been more happy [Vent]

I just found this sub and I've never been more happy [Vent] To find a place where you won't be judged for having a stutter is amazing. I recently developed it (in the last year or two) and it's so rou...

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commentr/StutterDec 19, 2017
2 points

I saw myself when i was reading your post. I can definitely relate with you. My stutter is mild and i don't think i have moments when it's worst (ofc the ones when i'm under pressure) , it just happe...

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commentr/StutterDec 17, 2017
2 points

That lines up with my experience of the one girl I know in real life who stutters. I'll talk to her for five minutes and then wonder how I got to know her and I'll be like oh right she stutters. She's...

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Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking