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postr/StutterNov 18, 2023
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Does anyone feel like they're unable to be their trueselves with a stutter?

Does anyone feel like they're unable to be their trueselves with a stutter? Hey all, Bit of a background before I get into the main topic, but I'm in my late 20s and have had a stutter since I was ar...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentPropositionality & Weight+3 more
commentr/StutterNov 18, 2023
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my stutter cleared by 14 then it came back around 16 now i’m 18 and i cannot introduce myself or say my name to anyone without stuttering . life is a serious of changes and you learn to navigate them ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterNov 18, 2023
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Blocks pretty much describe my stammering experience for many, many years. Some days are better than others, some days are very, very difficult I have discovered over time what can help. I attended ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportTherapy & Professional
Avoidance & SubstitutionValidation & EmpathyTherapy Experiences
commentr/StutterNov 17, 2023
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I have tried meditating, to be honest my internal thoughts are not a nice place to be, so I try to distract myself...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Mindfulness & BreathingAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterNov 17, 2023
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Overcoming negative image of one's self, caused by stuttering?

Overcoming negative image of one's self, caused by stuttering? Hello, Some days I just seem to block on every word. I have no idea why, and when these days come around it just drops my mood for an e...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterNov 16, 2023
1 points

Anyone ever worked ups early shift and woke up at 3AM daily. Orientation day soon and want to know what to expect as a person with a stutter. Any advice?

Anyone ever worked ups early shift and woke up at 3AM daily. Orientation day soon and want to know what to expect as a person with a stutter. Any advice? Got a orientation day soon and i have a stutte...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterNov 16, 2023
1 points

Well my step dad doesn't really know a lot about my situation since he's been my step dad for only a year now and my mom has known about my issues since I was little , I went to speech therapy once or...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterNov 16, 2023
1 points

My original strategy was avoidance behavior - which lead me to become a walking thesaurus. It worked, but I would sometimes sound like I was talking gibberish with all my big fancy words. After that,...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesAdvice Requests
commentr/StutterNov 16, 2023
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Tiring because I chose nearly every word that came out of my mouth and became a walking thesaurus to avoid (as best I could) my “Bad Words.” This worked(ish), but I still had days where I was struggli...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency Techniques
postr/StutterNov 15, 2023
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Doing interviews and stuttering?

Doing interviews and stuttering? What helps you feel more at ease doing job interviews? For me I tend to talk very fast so people tell me to take a breath and slow down…especially doing interviews. i...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
postr/StutterNov 15, 2023
1 points

Im exhausted

Im exhausted I dont know what else to say but im tired. Im tired of having to neatpick my words all the time, filtering everything i say. Ive missed out on so many friendships and opportunity because ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & Agency+1 more
postr/StutterNov 15, 2023
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I’m a filmmaker who stutters and I made this short about a florist, who stutters, forced to cooperate with a voice-activated car. It’s about avoidance/acceptance, a journey I've been on. Glad to finally be able to share it here.

I’m a filmmaker who stutters and I made this short about a florist, who stutters, forced to cooperate with a voice-activated car. It’s about avoidance/acceptance, a journey I've been on. Glad to final...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterNov 14, 2023
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Stutter can lead to many things

Stutter can lead to many things I have stutter since a child and it’s very up and down throughout my life. I can never do presentations after getting traumatized from trying to do em. It’s lead to m...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightTrauma & Psychological+3 more
postr/StutterNov 14, 2023
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Not stuttering when with therapist

Not stuttering when with therapist I literally stuttered ONCE that full hour. What the hell is wrong with me, why can’t I only stutter only once at work and not have a full on speech block?...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more
postr/StutterNov 14, 2023
1 points

Xanax makes my stutter temporarily disappear - Thrilled and heartbroken at the same time

Xanax makes my stutter temporarily disappear - Thrilled and heartbroken at the same time I have been diagnosed with a fluency disorder which is heavily impacted by my anxiety. I have struggled with m...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/Flight+2 more
commentr/StutterNov 14, 2023
1 points

My diazepam prescription helps me. When I have it is the only time I can talk on the phone to people or order what I want at the drive thru. I realize and understand the dangers of these medications b...

Meds & SubstancesAnticipation & Avoidance
Harmful Med OutcomesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterNov 14, 2023
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my best guess is, new stresses + new environment = more stuttering. 1. tell yourself it's ok to stutter 2. if you can, try reducing some of your stressors. maybe try some meditation as well. 3. ...

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Stress & Fight/FlightMindfulness & BreathingAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterNov 14, 2023
1 points

I'm tired of being laughed at/Tired of immature people laughing at us:

I'm tired of being laughed at/Tired of immature people laughing at us: I just want to vent really quickly, In the last two months there have been at least 3 incidents where I've been ordering somethi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger+2 more
postr/StutterNov 14, 2023
6 points

Stuttering during work!!!

Stuttering during work!!! Hey everyone! I am a college student and I also have a campus desk job. I have a mild stutter but it gets very bad when I am speaking in public or in front of a group. I also...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterNov 14, 2023
1 points

It's only like doing one-handed pushups if there's stakes to the conversation. So, remove the stakes and just contrive a fake scenario to practice openly/confidently stuttering in front of strangers! ...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAvoidance & Substitution