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commentr/StutterMar 4, 2017
1 points

Speech therapy is for all ages, really. It's not a kids thing. Maybe you can find someone anyway? "Deal with", as indicated above, could mean a bunch of things, depending on how you want to go about ...

Therapy & ProfessionalAnticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Seeking TherapyOverthinking & MonitoringFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterMar 4, 2017
1 points

You're right, I meant conscious mind instead of subconscious. My mistake. However, I still stand by everything I've said. Taking the time to practice what I've mentioned will dramatically improve your...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Mindset shiftOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterMar 4, 2017
2 points

I think I'd prefer the term "deal with". It's less passive - "accept" sounds like just sitting back and not doing anything. I mean, as a _premise_, sure, we _have_ to accept that we stutter. But that'...

Coping & AdvocacyTherapy & ProfessionalAnticipation & Avoidance
Mindset shiftSeeking TherapyOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterMar 3, 2017
1 points

> They've settled. Well, they would disagree with you.... I just think we have to be very careful about telling other people that they're not living in the right way. There is never just one wa...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Mindset shiftOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterMar 3, 2017
1 points

You make valid points. I'm enjoying this discussion. To elaborate on what I previously mentioned about your speech improving as an indirect result when you improve your quality of life. Increasing yo...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Mindset shiftHope & MotivationOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterMar 2, 2017
1 points

Stuttering is an identity that we all share, and how you identify with it varies. When I was 15, I exhibited secondary behavior like tapping myself to get through a block, now I'm 25 and I sort of jus...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Identity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. MaskingOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterMar 1, 2017
10 points

I stutter less when I don't think about it. More if I focus on trying to not stutter....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Overthinking & MonitoringAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMar 1, 2017
2 points

Ayyy lmao I know that feel so well. Yeah anxiety is a factor for sure. But "anxiety" is a blanket term for a LOT of different thoughts/ideas/patterns. One of these that I think of is the idea of being...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterMar 1, 2017
3 points

True! It definitely is distinct for every individual. But in that example, isn't feeling uncomfortable about your fucked up teeth really just feeling uncomfortable about your appearances? Or feeling s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 1, 2017
1 points

I just like thinking, I'm an introvert. So when I go to start a conversation it starts well and then I run out of things to say. Anxiety kicks in and the rest is history ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterMar 1, 2017
4 points

Yes that's what I'm saying! Why not try and figure it out?? You say "when you're excited, having a good time", who are you around at those times? What are you feeling and thinking? And when you say "i...

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Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2017
1 points

Do you stutter when you speak to someone on a webcam? Do you stutter when you're alone on cam and you can see yourself speak? Maybe record yourself when you're alone and talk to yourself and observe w...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Overthinking & MonitoringExperiential Association
commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2017
2 points

Yeah for the most part, we have the opposite problem: unable to say anything to anyone, while being completely fluent on our own. I struggle in conversations because I perceive language and communica...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Overthinking & MonitoringMindfulness & Breathing
commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2017
1 points

It is so hard not to think about stuttering beforehand because this is a process that has to happen naturally, it's too hard to force it....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Overthinking & Monitoring
postr/StutterFeb 14, 2017
6 points

How to not think about stuttering

How to not think about stuttering I know stuttering isn't all the way mental, but I feel like what makes it worse is the anticipation of a future or present situation. What are ways to not think about...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringMindset shiftAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterFeb 13, 2017
6 points

Hi guys, I have a few questions regarding stuttering, some of them asked a lot here probably. I would to hear your thoughts!

Hi guys, I have a few questions regarding stuttering, some of them asked a lot here probably. I would to hear your thoughts! Hello fellow stutterers! I have a couple of questions to ask and some thou...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringOverthinking & MonitoringNeurological & Brain+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2017
1 points

In my case, my stutter gets worse if I keep thinking about what i'm about to say before I say it. Perhaps to try not to over think it on the wedding day. Also taking it slower than normal would help t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Anticipating StutteringOverthinking & MonitoringFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterFeb 8, 2017
3 points

This is you essentially performing a valsalva maneuver. Your larynx closes (trying to say a vowel) and your stomach tightens. This compresses your air and creates that tension. I don't think the larn...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterFeb 6, 2017
5 points

How to not focus on stutterering as much?

How to not focus on stutterering as much? I focus too much on it. In fact times when I don't focus on it are when I'm most fluent. I want it to be a secondary thought, not something that occupies m...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringMindset shiftAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 2, 2017
3 points

My stutter is the exact opposite. When I just wake and still feel groggy I stutter a lot less than when I'm fully awake. ...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Energy & Biological RhythmsOverthinking & Monitoring