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commentr/StutterMay 27, 2021
2 points

Personally when I stutter I tend to look away to the one(s) I'm talking too, and I think it helps me a bit idk why?...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterMay 26, 2021
3 points

Always think I’m not going to be taken seriously.

Always think I’m not going to be taken seriously. So I did a few posts a while ago about my stutter when it was relatively new. Over time I’ve grown to accept that it’s just a part of me. And I see a ...

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commentr/StutterMay 26, 2021
1 points

This is really sad, and I apologise. I once walked into a McDonald's to order something. Right off the bat I got the sensation that my stutter was going to be in overdrive mode. I just took out a pe...

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commentr/StutterMay 26, 2021
2 points

I always envy those types of stutterers who either just don't "gaf" or are so comfortable in their own skin when they stutter. I'm way TOO self conscious and lack confidence in such situations. I wou...

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Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 26, 2021
3 points

I have found that many people become uncomfortable when they encounter a stutterer. I used to be very self-conscious about their discomfort. Later, I learned to apply humor when I saw their discomfort...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & Support
Hiding & ConcealmentHumor & Community Tone
commentr/StutterMay 26, 2021
1 points

When I was in highschool, we had to tell our grades to the teacher loud after an exam, so she could register them into the teacher's book (or I don't know the exact name for that book). I always found...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterMay 25, 2021
17 points

An Awkward and uncomfortable situation...

An Awkward and uncomfortable situation... today was my moms birthday and we went out to eat. My mom my grandpa and our neighbor decided to tag along with us to go out to eat for her birthday My mom ...

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commentr/StutterMay 25, 2021
11 points

Crushed my confidence. I’m over 40 now and my stutter is something that comes rarely now. Whether it’s age, all the therapy I went through, outlook on life or whatever, it’s improved. I can honestly ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
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postr/StutterMay 25, 2021
2 points

I cant do drive thru or go to fast food stores only moms gets food for me

I cant do drive thru or go to fast food stores only moms gets food for me Wen we go out I always mom goes get our food I can't go inside or drive thrue it's been like that for years I'm 31...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentQuality of Life
postr/StutterMay 25, 2021
42 points

Stuttering and how isolating it feels.

Stuttering and how isolating it feels. I want to vent on here and ask for some advice, and I know many people are most likely in the same predicament at the moment, I have stuttered my whole lifetime,...

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commentr/StutterMay 24, 2021
3 points

This was great to read. I'm also a software developer but I'm still at the "hiding in my cube" part of the story. I get on well with my colleagues and have no problem with talking to them. But I'm sti...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMay 24, 2021
2 points

Thanks for sharing your journey and perspective. I’m in the middle of my career now and have found similar experiences. I wonder if many of the younger people have difficulty relating if they believe ...

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postr/StutterMay 24, 2021
135 points

A salesperson with a stutter just came to my house.

A salesperson with a stutter just came to my house. Doorbell rings, and it’s a salesman for a pest control service. As soon as he starts talking, I could hear what I’d call a mild/moderate stutter. Th...

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postr/StutterMay 24, 2021
57 points

I hesitated to tell me story, but here goes.

I hesitated to tell me story, but here goes. I'm new to the group with a few recent posts. I have debated telling my story because I was concerned about coming across as self-righteous or preachy. For...

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commentr/StutterMay 24, 2021
0 points

There's a lot of posts here that handwave the concern of getting a job by suggesting "just be confident lol", and I believe this is absolutely harmful, and makes me think that people who suggest this ...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 23, 2021
1 points

I hid as a transactional lawyer for 21 years - mid level stutter. I channeled my career towards reading and writing and managing deals so speaking was usually limited to functional, technical things,...

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commentr/StutterMay 23, 2021
4 points

Probably my first real comment on Reddit. Literally just searched for a subreddit like this one and was surprised to find it. I've had a stutter even since I can remember honestly. I feel like it ha...

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commentr/StutterMay 23, 2021
2 points

I am an interpreter/translator. I failed my first interview since I was inexperienced graduate who stutters like hell. Interviewers even told me to go home :) Then I become very angry with myself and ...

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commentr/StutterMay 23, 2021
9 points

I'm a software engineer and stutter my way through daily- and stakeholder meetings. Also people kinda need to listen to what I have to say (that does not help). Everybody is really accepting and it's ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMay 23, 2021
7 points

I agree with everything SammySparklyPanda and Semicoolon said. To add to their comments, I don’t think anyone should be defined by their stutter. I have a moderate to severe stutter where I block and...

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