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commentr/StutterJul 15, 2019
13 points

I felt the exact same way growing up. It took a complete breakdown when I was 19 for me to be honest with myself that I was using stuttering as an excuse not to achieve. I knew I could do these things...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & CareerIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2019
1 points

I've thought about this so many times, especially as a kid. I always wished I was deaf because I always felt that people would be more understanding of being deaf as a disability and then I might actu...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Helplessness & AgencyHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2019
3 points

It's not just the speaking that's exhausting for me. It's the whole of social interaction. I think it's why many of us become introverts. Just being out and talking to others is draining and we want t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2019
2 points

I wish he were comfortable, but he really isn't. He said he was on the verge of fainting from the anxiety of his stammer. I think it's a really bad case and I really just wanted to help him, he said a...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentTrauma & PsychologicalHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJul 13, 2019
1 points

good stuff man. i went super negative in high school and depressed. i became much less social and avoided all talking stuff. it was real bad! you just gotta keep putting yourself out there and eventua...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJul 12, 2019
2 points

Can't socialize with anyone at all. Even my family. It is very hard to live with... I've been in and out of many interviews always blaming my stutter when I answer their questions. I know there is ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 11, 2019
2 points

No I wouldn’t really want that because I don’t want to feel completely useless in terms of talking and I am able to talk just not as well as a lot of people...

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & Agency
postr/StutterJul 11, 2019
2 points

“for some reason, what constitutes a person’s happiness must at the same time be the source of his suffering” - Goethe

“for some reason, what constitutes a person’s happiness must at the same time be the source of his suffering” - Goethe For me that happiness is communicating with people but because of my stutter conv...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & AgencyQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJul 4, 2019
5 points

>I have noticed that my speech has gotten worse over the last 2ish months or so, not exactly sure why. It's usually mild to moderate but nowadays it can be as bad as severe, in terms of blocking. T...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterJul 4, 2019
3 points

Advice Needed. Please Help

Advice Needed. Please Help Diagnosed as a non-stutterer 2 times but encounter speech blocking during high tension-inducing situations (interviews). ​ Im fluent in daily casual conversatio...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterJul 3, 2019
1 points

We all have bad sides. Part of growing up is coming to terms with our negative sides. That's more a general idea though. Stuttering is a part of you, like with me. I'm 30 and still recall vivid memo...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideHelplessness & AgencyShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 3, 2019
3 points

I like the hiking analogy. It sounds like you look at the bigger picture. It was painful on the hike but you saw some great sites so it was all worth it. I don't necessarily think the same could be sa...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Quality of LifeAvoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJul 3, 2019
5 points

I totally feel this. When I was young I stuttered really severely, to the point of an adrenaline rush of fear, making it feel like it lasts forever... Those sensations, ticks, gasps and sore muscles...

Speech & StutteringEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Blocks & StoppagesPhysical TensionShame & Embarrassment+2 more
postr/StutterJul 2, 2019
14 points

I’ve had a stutter all my life

I’ve had a stutter all my life And it’s just so frustrating. Having a stutter is bad enough but having a stutter AND a lisp, ugh.. Not only is every part of my life limiting but also this. In highscho...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Feared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic Life+2 more
commentr/StutterJul 2, 2019
3 points

I've been there man and I know how it feels, it's like a gut punch every time. BUT, believe me when I tell you this, things do get better. Looking back to when I was 19 (I'm 33 now), I felt like the w...

Community & SupportSchool & WorkEmotional Experience
Personal StoriesEmployment & CareerHope & Motivation+1 more
postr/StutterJul 2, 2019
13 points

Do You Struggle With Making Friends The Mainstream Way?

Do You Struggle With Making Friends The Mainstream Way? By mainstream way I mean the way which most people make friends - In the classroom or in the office, studio, or whatever. Most people will make...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & AgencyFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterJul 1, 2019
2 points

Sometimes I dip out of being actively communicative. I think it can be just as therapeutic as engaging with others. Talking can be exhausting for us, so if you need a break, take a break. You don’t ha...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Quality of LifeHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterJul 1, 2019
24 points

Anyone else decide talking is simply not worth it?

Anyone else decide talking is simply not worth it? For the last 6 months, I've been backpacking and staying in hostels so I'm constantly meeting new people. I've been trying to take advantage of this ...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureFriendships & BelongingFrustration & Anger+1 more
postr/StutterJun 30, 2019
5 points

Do you think stutterers have a higher chance of developing alcoholism?

Do you think stutterers have a higher chance of developing alcoholism? Whether alcohol improves your speech or not, I think it’s save to say that stuttering brings more difficulties in our lifes than ...

Meds & SubstancesEmotional Experience
Recreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJun 27, 2019
31 points

Job application: Do you have any of the following disabilities? Me: **sad disfluent noises**...

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & Agency