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postr/StutterJul 10, 2021
2 points

Getting a job

Getting a job Ok so this post has 2 main purposes/questions... 1: what jobs/careers are good/easy for a stutterer? 2: do you all disclose during an interview that you have a stutter (or any other d...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & WorkSpeech & Stuttering
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+2 more
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2021
4 points

I did! I worked as the front-line IT help desk for my university for 4 years with a moderate-to-severe stutter. One of the best things I ever did for myself. My confidence on the phone and speaking wi...

School & WorkAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerHiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling Others+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2021
5 points

I've been working in Technical Support for over a year now, at first I was really anxious so my stutter was the worst, I've heard some hurtful comments which made me cry, but with time I gained confid...

School & WorkAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerHiding & ConcealmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2021
2 points

I work in I.T. and am currently on rotation taking phone calls. The only thing people care about is being helped with their issue. As long as your competent you'll be fine....

School & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
Employment & CareerHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2021
2 points

Mild stutter that is now pretty invisible to others (it’s still there though). Had speech therapy when I was younger but nothing since before high school. I read up on different experiences with stu...

Causes & VariabilityCoping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Situational VariabilityFluency TechniquesHiding & Concealment+2 more
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2021
3 points

Haven’t experienced the voice-to-text at work your described. Only suggestion is to do your best. Unless you’re new, people already know you and will understand. They’ll just go straight to the audio ...

School & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
Employment & CareerHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJul 6, 2021
2 points

I really feel your pain. However, watching yourself presenting can be really helpful. It's painful at the beginning but the more you do it the easier it becomes. Don't forget that's how everyone else...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 6, 2021
9 points

Medical fellow here. Finished my residency recently and started my fellowship and I have a moderate to severe stutter. Reading this, I can see a lot of myself in you. I’m sorry to hear about the war ...

School & WorkTherapy & ProfessionalAnticipation & Avoidance
Employment & CareerTherapy ExperiencesHiding & Concealment+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 5, 2021
1 points

It seems hard to do, but for me it helped. It helps with the speech anxiety for sure. And don't assume because they hear you stutter they know that it's stuttering. If you feel uncomfortable straig...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 5, 2021
2 points

I had a pretty severe stuttering condition from the age of 3 to 14 (I still stutter sometimes, but this age range was the worst in my life) and had trouble even finishing sentences. The constant mocke...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingMindset shift+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 5, 2021
2 points

I dont think there ever was a single point, there were a lot of them and aftrr some time, theyve made me immune to my speech fails. I also read lee lovetts book about how he beat his own stuttering....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJul 4, 2021
4 points

Disclaimer my stutter use to be moderately severe, but its getting better and its now mild most of the time, so I'm not sure that people with a more severe stutter would feel the same in this situatio...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingSeverity & Fluctuation+1 more
postr/StutterJul 2, 2021
9 points

Looking for a job

Looking for a job I am 16 years old and am looking for my first part time job. The only problem is of course: my stutter. I am thinking a cashier might be my best bet. Even though I am not into the wh...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Feared Words & NamesHiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career
postr/StutterJul 2, 2021
2 points

Stuttering document

Stuttering document I keep a document on Drive where I write what I want to say, and when I need to speak I show it, rather than do a poor attempt at talking. Anyone do anything similar?...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJul 2, 2021
1 points

It's the exact same for me. I have been so good at covert stuttering that until I move to a new country (2 years back), most of the colleagues and friends hardly noticed my stutter. I dont know what c...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentSuicidal Ideation & High Distress
commentr/StutterJul 1, 2021
2 points

Woah same here, I’ve been wondering a way out myself. Lately I’ve been thinking stuttering has an effect on it and increases anxiety to a whole nother threshold. I’m a covert stutterer so maybe if we ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJul 1, 2021
4 points

I’m a product owner with a covert stutter. So whilst I can mask it most times, it’s extremely exhausting and a double bad because I then think I’m being fake. I built up my identity a certain way but ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJul 1, 2021
3 points

When you ask them if they want a bag, don't focus on if you're going to stutter on the word bag, visualize giving them the bag. Don't avoid asking anymore. The fear is just building up and making it...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJun 29, 2021
10 points

I think what bothers me most about my stutter is that I never stutter when I'm alone. Smooth sailing all the way? Add another person, even my wife? Stutter. It's annoying....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterJun 29, 2021
21 points

After YEARS of denial and self-help, finally started with speech therapy today

After YEARS of denial and self-help, finally started with speech therapy today Apologies in advance if this is a long post but got a fair bit to let off my chest. I'm 26. I've been stuttering for as ...

Therapy & ProfessionalAnticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Therapy ExperiencesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+1 more