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commentr/StutterJul 31, 2021
20 points

I'm in IT. In the beginning I didn't deal with it too well. I am in a cubicle setting and I used to go out of the room and outside to make any work calls because I was afraid to make calls in front...

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commentr/StutterJul 30, 2021
1 points

>How can I get a job or a bf if I don't tell people? Let's process this line of thinking. In your world, telling leads to getting, say, a bf. Because, well, surely this guy sees beyond your stutt...

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commentr/StutterJul 30, 2021
10 points

I have the same feeling. I think my stutter has improved, but back when I was 14-21 or so I barely spoke to strangers because of the fear. As a result I never made the good friends that people make du...

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commentr/StutterJul 30, 2021
7 points

I feel you. For me it reached a point where my friends would talk over me without them noticing that I was actually trying to say something. You would say that this is my friends' fault and all but th...

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commentr/StutterJul 30, 2021
1 points

I may get downvoted for this, but here we go... Reread what you wrote 3 or 4 times. What I am seeing is load of negativity, avoidance and victim playing. With that being said I can relate to you...

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commentr/StutterJul 29, 2021
1 points

Also whenever i go to library or some places in my country where we have to tell them our CNIC(Identity card number) for entry and stuff so whenever they asks that "yeah tell me your number" i just ha...

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postr/StutterJul 28, 2021
11 points

Any tips or strategies?

Any tips or strategies? Hello fellow stutterers, This year I’m going a new school, and I’m kind of worried about how I’m going to approach this. In the past I’ve had trouble making friends with my stu...

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commentr/StutterJul 27, 2021
2 points

If they don’t explicitly ask, I wouldn’t tell them. I never got a single job where I disclosed to the interviewer I stutter, no matter how many years experienced I was. (They also legally cannot ask y...

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commentr/StutterJul 27, 2021
1 points

I am sorry to hear of your struggles. I've felt the same way at times. What has always helped me find relationships is being funny. I think I used humor to mask my stuttering because I tend to stutte...

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commentr/StutterJul 27, 2021
3 points

Hi I’m 27 so in the same late 20s boat. It seems you identify very closely with your stutter, which is natural but can be quite a hindrance. I’ve had customer service retail jobs for 7 years, been in ...

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commentr/StutterJul 27, 2021
3 points

I never told an employer about it. I felt that if I felt it would hold me back, that that would give the employer second thought weather I was the one for the job. I was tired of feeling sad and hopel...

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commentr/StutterJul 27, 2021
12 points

Hey I was also in a very similar spot at one point in my life. I worked from home, no hope of finding someone to share my life with, no friends, just no hope. Then one day I sent a msg to a young lady...

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postr/StutterJul 27, 2021
21 points

How To Go About Making Friends, Dating and Finding a Job

How To Go About Making Friends, Dating and Finding a Job Hello everyone! My name is Tiff and I'm a person who stutters. I've been stuttering since I was in elementary school and have been to therapy...

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postr/StutterJul 27, 2021
14 points

Sorry for the long post guys! Talking about my stutter

Sorry for the long post guys! Talking about my stutter I'm 23 , currently a 4th year medical student. I am a stutterer since I could remember. But I didn't believe few years back that I actually stutt...

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commentr/StutterJul 27, 2021
5 points

You could probably look it up in your court records, it depends on your jurisdiction. My jurisdiction has an online database that includes basic information like the case number, date, and judges name...

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commentr/StutterJul 27, 2021
1 points

Thanks for sharing this. I recently came across Jack's article for the first time and it hugely resonated with me. I'd be interested to understand how you got on with reading from a script? if that ...

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postr/StutterJul 26, 2021
13 points

First job

First job I’m 17 and I started my first ever job a couple of weeks ago as a waiter in a pub. So far it hasn’t been too bad. I like it but I find it so difficult to talk to customers. Just asking them ...

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commentr/StutterJul 26, 2021
1 points

I don't believe I stuttered when I was alone. Actually that's not 100% true. I remember having to record voicemail greetings numerous times because my stutter came through while I was trying to reco...

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postr/StutterJul 25, 2021
29 points

My experience with stuttering and tips to help you

My experience with stuttering and tips to help you I began stuttering at 14 and it was a terrible experience. I wouldn't consider my stuttering severe but it was definitely above moderate, in between ...

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postr/StutterJul 23, 2021
7 points

Social opportunities lost

Social opportunities lost So today I was seeing some old chats in my phone with people (I’m still in highschool) and I realized, that due to this problem I’m literally unable to create strong bonds wi...

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