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postr/StutterAug 23, 2021
22 points

No stuttering incidents since last year; Stutterer of 6 years

No stuttering incidents since last year; Stutterer of 6 years This is my first post on this subreddit, and I think it's actually my first time checking out this subreddit. I made an account just for t...

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commentr/StutterAug 23, 2021
3 points

All antipsychotics are sedative so i'm not surprised in improved your sleep. Abilify mechanism might be a little confusing to those not in the medical world. It's the most mild of the anti-dopamine d...

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postr/StutterAug 23, 2021
52 points

Phone calls are a pain

Phone calls are a pain Today I had to make a phone call to get a refill for my medication. I don't have to make phone calls often and I'm at peace with my stutter. I avoid phone calls but if I really ...

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commentr/StutterAug 22, 2021
3 points

Yep, sometimes lying is the lesser of two evils. Anything to avoid the “oh you don’t even know your own name”, pity or ridicule. Self preservation....

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postr/StutterAug 21, 2021
11 points

I haven't talked to anybody for what seems like 2 years just because I was tired of stuttering. My advice: Not worth it

I haven't talked to anybody for what seems like 2 years just because I was tired of stuttering. My advice: Not worth it I wanted to stop stuttering, but I ended up talking less and less cause obvious...

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postr/StutterAug 21, 2021
10 points

What is the best way to desensitise/overcome stuttering?

What is the best way to desensitise/overcome stuttering? Hello, is anyone familiar with NLP and Neuro-Semantics? I'm reading Mastering Blocking and stuttering by Bob Bodenhammer. It's like a more in d...

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postr/StutterAug 20, 2021
72 points

Just got my first job in my career!

Just got my first job in my career! 27, mild to moderate stutter, been stuttering since I can remember. After a long week of 3 phone interviews, 2 Zoom panel interviews (of 3-4 people), and an in-pers...

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postr/StutterAug 20, 2021
14 points

I've been trying so hard

I've been trying so hard i have been trying so hard to come to terms with my stuttering. i always picture it as a quirk and i always remind myself that everyone has something and it just happened that...

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commentr/StutterAug 19, 2021
5 points

Totally agree. Most of my friends have no idea that I stammer because I am so good at hiding it - I have a wide vocabulary so can often switch words on the fly and so on. Like you said, this is probab...

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commentr/StutterAug 18, 2021
9 points

Sometimes the ones who hide it the best also struggle the worst. They constantly jump through hoops, fear, anxiety, running away, avoidance behavior, skipping activities, literally hiding. Sometimes ...

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commentr/StutterAug 18, 2021
3 points

Ugh I guess I'm the oldest here 40.. I to have a moderate stutter. Often times I'm fine but it can sneak up on me. Especially if you ask my name. You can both accept it and try to overcome it at the s...

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commentr/StutterAug 18, 2021
2 points

I'm in my mid 40's. Mine was bad as a child and that was rough, but it got better over the years to the point where some new friends in high school didn't know I had a speech problem. College was ro...

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postr/StutterAug 18, 2021
2 points

Stutter issue

Stutter issue Hello I am 24. I have a stuttering proble. When I am alone, I don't stutter I can speak with myself fluently. And when I am with known people I stutter a bit plus infront of them sometim...

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postr/StutterAug 18, 2021
41 points

Fellow stutterers who have managed to accept/make peace with your stuttering, what has your journey been like?

Fellow stutterers who have managed to accept/make peace with your stuttering, what has your journey been like? I'm 25. I've stuttered for most of my life. I have never even come close to being able to...

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commentr/StutterAug 17, 2021
2 points

Hi, I moved in Germany in 2018 and started to learn German myself 3 Months before that in Internet. Try it too, you can surely manage A1/A2 on your own, then it will be a little easier. It will be ha...

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commentr/StutterAug 17, 2021
1 points

I definitely made it seem like OP had to make an essay about his stutter and his experiences lol, I didn’t mean that at all. What I meant was, not allowing the potential employer to see the stutter as...

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commentr/StutterAug 17, 2021
2 points

I'm not against advertising. Many stutterers find it helpful. Its good to try at least once and see what works for you. I may have misinterpreted you, but I don't think it's necessary spending seve...

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commentr/StutterAug 17, 2021
1 points

Don’t you think that disclosing the stutter eases anxiety, breaks the ice, and positions OP for a better smoother riding interview rather than doing it all covertly? Depending what OP would be doing...

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commentr/StutterAug 17, 2021
2 points

While it's your option to disclose, I am not sure it's necessary to spend several minutes, specifically in the beginning, talking about your stutter. It's retail. They want someone honest, dependabl...

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commentr/StutterAug 17, 2021
1 points

Probably not what you want to hear, but I would recommend against it. I’ve had several close friends, roommates, family members, etc join fraternities and most regretted it in the long run. The pledgi...

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