Probably not what you want to hear, but I would recommend against it. I’ve had several close friends, roommates, family members, etc join fraternities and most regretted it in the long run. The pledging process is extremely grueling , there will probably be hazing no matter what they say, and your grades will likely suffer. The only person I know who benefitted from joining a fraternity went to a top tier engineering school and made good business connections. TL,DR if you’re pledging to party, not worth it. If you think it will help your career, maybe worth it