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commentr/StutterAug 7, 2023
1 points

I am a speech therapist and I like to know what has worked for different people who stutter. I’ve spoken to a few different adults (through everyday life,) and it’s interesting. One grew out of it, (...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySchool & Work
Experiential AssociationSituational VariabilityEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterAug 7, 2023
2 points

I agree, exposure therapy does work. Getting jobs where you have to go out and talk to customers, like working at restaurants or front desk, i think it improved my speech a lot But I still have days...

Coping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterAug 7, 2023
1 points

I worked harder in college (eventually) because of my stutter. Over compensated, overachieved is the term, I think. It helped a lot. Be practical about your education. Unless you are absolutely passio...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringHelplessness & Agency+3 more
postr/StutterAug 5, 2023
16 points

stuttering is ruining my life.

stuttering is ruining my life. Now I wasn't always stuttering growing up. But as I got older my stuttering got really bad. It's to the point I cant hold a simple conversation/ talk on the phone. I tal...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringSeverity & Fluctuation+3 more
commentr/StutterAug 5, 2023
1 points

I’ve been kind of free associating in my responses, seeing where the ideas led. I like where they led. I am not angry, except at first when your advice sounded like some internet surfer dropping in tr...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalFrustration & AngerIdentity & Self-Perception+3 more
commentr/StutterAug 5, 2023
1 points

I've spent my whole life avoiding jobs that require manly talking or using phones, all I've ever really had was low paid driving jobs.. My stammer put paid to any real career options I may of had or...

School & Work
Employment & Career
postr/StutterAug 4, 2023
10 points

Little vent sesh

Little vent sesh I have to do phones/customer service at my job an hour or two a day and it's not the whole day so usually I can get by alright, but damn this week really sucked. I was "um"-ing all ov...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterAug 3, 2023
1 points

The phone can certainly be one of the hardest things when you stutter, and when getting a job is on the line it's double the stress and anxiety. I recently went through all of this when my girlfriend ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 3, 2023
38 points

It’s always amazed me how we, as AWS, are largely denied disability rights. It’s so difficult for us just to function in our daily lives with unreliable speech, let alone get an opportunity to intervi...

School & Work
Employment & CareerAccess & Rights
commentr/StutterAug 3, 2023
1 points

Thats brutal. Been there before. In previous interviews I've opened with, "Just to let you know, I stutter. It isn't a big deal, and it has taught me a lot of patience and grit, which I think will ben...

Coping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesEmployment & Career
postr/StutterAug 3, 2023
3 points

Work calls

Work calls How do y’all handle work calls? I get stuck on Hello and keep repeating the word several times and just can’t stop. Have y’all found any techniques? I have made calls in while and I feel ho...

Speech & StutteringEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Blocks & StoppagesFrustration & AngerEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterAug 2, 2023
1 points

if it helps at all, i usually preface job interviews with "i have a chronic, uncontrollable stutter. this is a medical condition. please be patient with me." or something along those lines. in school,...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride+2 more
commentr/StutterAug 2, 2023
2 points

I feel you bro. Im also 17 and have fucked up so many parts of my life. I also struggle saying my name. It really sucks...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Feared Words & NamesEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterAug 2, 2023
2 points

I don’t mind at all. I work in healthcare administration and am in a leadership position. I’m consistently speaking publicly whether it’s conducting ad hoc trainings (either live or virtually) or lead...

School & Work
Employment & CareerPublic Speaking
commentr/StutterAug 2, 2023
9 points

Stuttering does suck man. In a situation like this it’s easy to think everyone is out to make fun of you and the embarrassment weighing down on you feels permanent, but when I face shit like this I li...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesHope & Motivation+2 more
commentr/StutterAug 2, 2023
3 points

The fact that you want to work at 17 is the best part! Keep trying someone will appreciate you , I promise!!...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Hope & MotivationEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterAug 2, 2023
4 points

Don't beat yourself up. I've done the same thing. Just continue on. My suggestion would be to get a job with a company like 'The Mosaic Company' or 'UPS'. Both of these companies don't require any edu...

School & Work
Employment & Career
commentr/StutterAug 2, 2023
13 points

I'm not to good at advice, but one thing I usually do when asked my name over the phone is spell it out. "First name is.... Last name...." I can spell my name MUCH easier than I can say it. That said...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterAug 2, 2023
21 points

Stuttering sucks. I've had job interviews ruined because of it, and I know something as simple as not being able to say your name hurts bad. But never be ashamed over it or let it define who you are. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportSchool & Work
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionAdvice Requests+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 2, 2023
2 points

I feel like I myself wrote everything being said here lol. I am a 48 year old hairstylist in a very affluent salon in a very affluent suburb. I'm above average in looks for my age. I have a pretty con...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Frustration & AngerStigma & BullyingEmployment & Career