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postr/StutterApr 3, 2018
16 points

Awful few weeks - I'm done!!

Awful few weeks - I'm done!! So I have officially had enough with my stammer. I've had it since I was 4 yrs old and I had it under control until I started my new job, 4 months ago. For years, I h...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
postr/StutterApr 1, 2018
15 points

Knowing what words I will get stuck on before I talk.

Knowing what words I will get stuck on before I talk. Hey everyone, I was wondering if anyone else has this problem. Before I even begin a sentence, I know what words I will get stuck on. And it's not...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & Names
commentr/StutterMar 29, 2018
1 points

Ok, done. It honestly could’ve gone a lot better, but at the same time it could’ve gone worse. The words with the hard letters in them always get me tripped up (Like any word with the letter T). I’m s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Feared Words & NamesPreparation & RehearsalSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterMar 27, 2018
2 points

Highly urge you to reconsider. This is as far of an avoidance mechanism as possible! Changing your name is the same as word replacing, only you are literally losing your identity. The reason you stutt...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 25, 2018
2 points

Okay. I understand what you are saying. I cannot agree that this is not at all about the sounds and is all about novelty effect. If it were, I could have chosen any other name (possibly a new name tha...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Identity & Self-PerceptionFeared Words & Names
postr/StutterMar 22, 2018
15 points

How do you deal with telephone-phobia?

How do you deal with telephone-phobia? I'm 25, been stuttering my whole life, been scared of telephones for half of that time. I won't go through the frustrations of telephone calls that we face (as I...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterMar 22, 2018
7 points

Changing my name - I think it will significantly help my social skills in spite of my stutter

Changing my name - I think it will significantly help my social skills in spite of my stutter I have been a stutterer since I was about 5 years old. Not sure how I got it - I might have been mimicking...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 21, 2018
7 points

I've got to give you props for even doing a phone interview. I'd probably just look for something else if I knew I had to do a phone interview. It just wouldn't be possible for me. It'd be like asking...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Feared Words & Names
postr/StutterMar 21, 2018
10 points

Need to rant. Had the worst phone interview I've had in my life.

Need to rant. Had the worst phone interview I've had in my life. I just finished up with a phone interview for a summer internship. It was just so bad and I could feel how uncomfortable the interviewe...

School & WorkAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerFeared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 20, 2018
2 points

I mean , looking at the people who have acquired stammer , which could be caused by brain injury or stroke etc . The only difference i find when listening to them is that their disfluencies are easy a...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & Avoidance
Blocks & StoppagesPhysical TensionAvoidance & Substitution+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 18, 2018
13 points

The thing that’s always hurt me the most is say, for example I go to say my name. It starts with a M and I get stuck on the M sound.. people tease me and go “what’s the ma, ma, matter? Ca, ca, can’t y...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Feared Words & NamesRepetitions & Prolongations
commentr/StutterMar 18, 2018
8 points

I was never bullied in school for my stutter. But now i'm in college and my roommate has been making fun of the way I say 'a cappella' (i'm in the campus a cappella group). I usually put H's before vo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHumor & Community Tone+3 more
commentr/StutterMar 18, 2018
15 points

I have quite a few examples. One was a rejection by a girl. I’ve been rejected many times and some have been specifically due to my stutter. One time, a girl told me she would only date me if I stop...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterMar 16, 2018
2 points

I have the exact same issue as you. Usually words that start with A E and H get me to stutter and when I know they will be coming in my speech the anxiety kicks in and I become focused on those words ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 16, 2018
7 points

Well we also learn which words or letters we’re more likely to stutter on and get anxious when they come up. ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & Names
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2018
2 points

You hit the nail on the head on this one. I’m so used to finding synonyms for words I‘m about to block on that once I get to something like my name, in which there’s no substitute, is when I freeze up...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2018
2 points

I do stutter sometimes on my own name too. Unfortunately there is no word you could swap out your name with... I try to play it off or just chuckle. People will usually not notice or just smile back. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+2 more
postr/StutterMar 5, 2018
10 points

Trouble with Introducing Myself...

Trouble with Introducing Myself... Hey guys - I’ve never posted to this sub and am still new but I’ve been struggling with a stutter since as long as I can remember. I work in a profession where I’m ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2018
1 points

Names for me are definitely the worst yeah. My manager's name is Andrew so I struggle with that. As well as substitute words I'd say the main thing I do is to say 2 words as if it was one word. For...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 27, 2018
1 points

Oh gotcha, I was unsure if you had terrible tinnitus and that's a common symptom of a brain tumor or something. I do stutter when reading alone, even just speaking to myself alone. This didn't always...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesStress & Fight/FlightShame & Embarrassment+1 more