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commentr/StutterApr 5, 2022
6 points

Anything that makes you feel better is recommended. You could start off the talk by saying your name, and explaining you have a stutter that sometimes makes it hard to say some words, including your...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterApr 5, 2022
4 points

I use to do the same before job interviews. After a bad experience I decided to start by saying (casually and confidently) “just to let you know I have a speech impediment, in case you hear a pause or...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterApr 5, 2022
2 points

I use to do the same before job interviews. After being covert for 25 years I decided to instead start by saying casually and confidently “just to let you know, I have a speech impediment, just in cas...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterApr 5, 2022
4 points

I definitely don't recommend doing this long term as it's a terrible solution. Have you tried prescription medication before? Most doctors will prescribe small amounts of benzodiazepines for speeches ...

Meds & SubstancesAnticipation & Avoidance
Helpful Med OutcomesHarmful Med OutcomesSide Effects & Risks+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 4, 2022
1 points

I do this when I know I will have to leave a message on a doctors voicemail or something of the sort. It’s a million times easier- a life saver!!! Sometimes I wonder if they can tell it’s a recording ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterApr 4, 2022
3 points

I left speach therapy because I feel like I will never be fluent, even though I was getting better

I left speach therapy because I feel like I will never be fluent, even though I was getting better Hey guys, I (21M) stutter since I was a little kid and did a loooot of speach therapy in my youth and...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterApr 4, 2022
3 points

It's a very hard goal to work on directly like that. You've totally got the right idea and and walking down the correct road, but that doesn't mean it's not difficult and there won't be setbacks. That...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentMindset shift+1 more
postr/StutterApr 4, 2022
6 points

Voice recordings during phone calls. Anyone else?

Voice recordings during phone calls. Anyone else? My secret tool: record hard-to-say speech using QuickTime (or similar program) in your own privacy, make the call, and then play the audio recordings ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentPreparation & Rehearsal+1 more
postr/StutterApr 4, 2022
14 points

The best advice is: don't TRY to speak fluently. Then you don't feel bothered

The best advice is: don't TRY to speak fluently. Then you don't feel bothered If we feel pressured, we trigger our stutter. So we feel 'bothered' by our stutter. Thoughts on itself don't cause 'feelin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterApr 4, 2022
1 points

I’m 21 and a male. I’ve stuttered my whole life and can’t say it’s done anything positive. It’s pretty much destroyed my self esteem and any chance of being in relationships cause I stutter and everyo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentSadness & Hopelessness+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 4, 2022
5 points

I stutter next to never around people outside of my immediate family, and it really comes out at home. I think this is because I feel self conscious enough that I taught learned to avoid words that ma...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterApr 4, 2022
5 points

Hey man I’ve been where you are. Few things I did to help: 1) you don’t owe anyone fluency. You need to continuously tell yourself this 2) mastering the art of not giving a fuck. Not in the sense of...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentMindset shiftIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 3, 2022
2 points

I went to speech therapy in high school and did not feel like I was given adequate time to actually improve. I would get pulled out from an elective for maybe 20 min once a week. Of course during the ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 3, 2022
2 points

Is the rest of what you present to the world “maxed out”? I’m talking wardrobe, grooming and physical fitness. I realized that I had the ability to affect these more than my stutter and investing into...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 3, 2022
7 points

Probably won’t help but this is what I’ve done over my life. I’m 22 now, for the first 21 years of my life I isolated myself and that left me with almost nobody to talk to. At the age of 7 my dad look...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Hiding & ConcealmentGenetic & Family FactorsTrauma & Psychological+3 more
postr/StutterApr 2, 2022
10 points

A method that helps me a little.

A method that helps me a little. I’ll try and be brief but will probably fail. Just today, I’ve been testing a method I came up with that I feel has actually helped me with my stutter a notable amou...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 2, 2022
3 points

I'd hate to try and hide my stutter on a date and while also trying to be myself. That doesn't really mix. Also I think it's harder to be confident when you're trying to hide a part of yourself you're...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterApr 2, 2022
9 points

omg this. im kind of like an extrovert with social anxiety (if that makes sense). the social anxiety stemmed from having a stutter and the fear of people knowing that stutter,, if i didnt have a stutt...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterApr 2, 2022
20 points

extroverts, tap in!

extroverts, tap in! i believe stuttering is even more frustrating as an extrovert. i think a lot of people that don’t know me assume i’m really shy and reserved because i don’t try to initiate a full-...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & Agency+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 1, 2022
6 points

I’ve tried Zoloft and lexapro. Zoloft worked but made me tired and lazy. Currently I’m on 10mg lexapro which is the lowest dose you can get and it changed my whole life. It allowed me(with some ha...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception