Is the rest of what you present to the world “maxed out”? I’m talking wardrobe, grooming and physical fitness. I realized that I had the ability to affect these more than my stutter and investing into that gave me confidence. I believe stutterers don’t have the luxury of being lazy about these things. If you go to work/school with a terrific outfit, perfect hair and good fitness I think the stutter is going to matter less to you and those around you.