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commentr/StutterOct 24, 2023
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This pisses me off to be honest. I don't really stutter much, but I have a heavy speech impediment that according to some people make me sound "mentally challenged" (or as some not nice people say, "r...

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commentr/StutterOct 24, 2023
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You stop dwelling on it by venting and getting it out of your system and having people to extend compassion and comfort. Bottling it up inside, having your feelings dismissed by being told “others hav...

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commentr/StutterOct 24, 2023
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Honestly at this point I think that's the only option. Everybody here is encouraging me to confess and they have compelling arguments. Seems I can't run from this, it's a part of me and I should accep...

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commentr/StutterOct 24, 2023
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Ngl I myself find some of my interactions with other people funny and embarrassing as I think about them 😅...

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commentr/StutterOct 24, 2023
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All I wish him is all the best, as I've already written. That's the purpose of my comment, too. Don't you find comments with words of encouragement...hypocritical? Do you really believe he will feel b...

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commentr/StutterOct 24, 2023
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The problem is that I'm afraid. I don't have the best experience with people thanks to my stuttering....

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commentr/StutterOct 24, 2023
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What do you actually hope to achieve by writing this comment? Do you think a person venting about their disability wants to hear this crap?...

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commentr/StutterOct 24, 2023
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I feel you. Every stutterer who is honest with themselves has felt this way at some point or another. Your feelings are 100% valid. Stuttering can be utterly debilitating at times. I often feel that w...

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commentr/StutterOct 24, 2023
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This maybe gonna sound weird and wrong but if I really need to be honest: even I, as a stutterer, sometimes find if funny when I see a video of someone stuttering really hard and have a good laugh eve...

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commentr/StutterOct 24, 2023
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Relatable ash but with me I felt like the biggest r3tard this teacher completely disregarding of my stammer says “what’s your name”, me with my stammer I mostly type it on my phone or point it on the ...

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commentr/StutterOct 23, 2023
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Several examples… I had a (very wealthy) senior board member of a non-profit publicly tell me to “spit it out” in front of the entire board while doing a complex planning session. That phrase is pre...

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postr/StutterOct 23, 2023
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It’s just not fair

It’s just not fair I’ve had enough of this. It’s just isn’t fucking fair that everyone around me is able to go about their lives not constantly anxious they’re going to sound like a complete retard ev...

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2023
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You should really look within and find a way to come to terms with this. There are ways to improve, but it does not go away. That's just how it is. People are getting offended because you're in here ...

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postr/StutterOct 22, 2023
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How good is your vocabulary?

How good is your vocabulary? I feel like mine is terrible, I always sound like a kid speaking. This is one of the things I hate the most about having a stutter. I try to read books but when it's t...

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postr/StutterOct 22, 2023
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He wanted to meet me but im just so fucking ugly

He wanted to meet me but im just so fucking ugly The guy that i befriended online wanted to meet me irl since he live near my city but im just so fuckinf ugly on top of having a stutter...

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2023
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Easy to say . A bunch of bullies pulling someone down on a regular basis might be no big deal for you . It is for others ....

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2023
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Easier said than done. Tried this a few times but end up regretting and thinking about it for months after a bad moment. Just my mindset ig. Thanks for the advise though....

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2023
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I feel you, I used to find ways to get around of speaking when there is the chance, I started leaving notes or type stuff to communicate for some time, I really wanted to get rid of this stutter, som...

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postr/StutterOct 21, 2023
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20 Year old with Self Esteem Issues

20 Year old with Self Esteem Issues Hello everyone, I’m 20, and a junior in college, and I’ve never had a girlfriend. I regularly go to the gym and get complimented by people that haven’t seen me in ...

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commentr/StutterOct 21, 2023
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try to explain to him that you're hurt inside when someone laughs at are your stutter. saying just stop doesn't usually work...

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