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postr/StutterMar 3, 2024
7 points

Should I change my life radically?

Should I change my life radically? I'm tired of this shit. I'm tired of being in this high school, I wanna have a radical change. Let me explain: I'm Spanish and I am in the last year of Compulsory S...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+1 more
postr/StutterMar 1, 2024
4 points

Hello

Hello It might be a bit long, I apologize. But I wanted to get it off my chest in some way. My English may be a bit bad, I hope I've made myself clear. ​ There is a great restlessness inside ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerAnxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & Hopelessness+2 more
postr/StutterFeb 29, 2024
4 points

Any tips?

Any tips? First I want to say I am so happy a sub like this exists! I have a speech impediment which causes me to stutter, mostly on vowels and starting up sentences and.. well about everything else t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCommunity & Support
Feared Words & NamesStress & Fight/FlightSeverity & Fluctuation+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2024
4 points

im really trying to hang in there, im struggling with mental health and alot of other shit. Im really trying....

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Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterFeb 28, 2024
16 points

Struggling with stuttering

Struggling with stuttering I hate it when i stutter, ive always stuttered ever since i was a child, im now 15 years old and still struggle with it, i cant socialize or have normal conversations withou...

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Feared Words & NamesShame & EmbarrassmentSadness & Hopelessness+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 27, 2024
2 points

Bro you’re you’re spot on with literally everything you said. That’s what has ruined my life up till now.. my inability to deliver my words in a way that’s socially attractive. With my stutter most ti...

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commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2024
4 points

So I have a lot of the concerns that you mentioned in this post. You're. Communication is key in a relationship and relationships get stronger when you work through issues / disagreements with your ...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & FluctuationHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterFeb 26, 2024
55 points

Can you really be lovable if you stutter?

Can you really be lovable if you stutter? This question is mostly directed to men. From what I know a huge part of what people fall in love with comes from what the person says and how he says it. You...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceHelplessness & AgencyAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2024
9 points

I'm an "older" person who is late to the game. So, the stuttering community's new perspective on acceptance is something I'm still trying to learn. Please look around for more formal and flushed out o...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Acceptance & PrideShame & EmbarrassmentHiding & Concealment+3 more
postr/StutterFeb 22, 2024
39 points

Honestly question why God made me like this and what his plan for me is.

Honestly question why God made me like this and what his plan for me is. I am 18 a freshman in college never went to any high school events never had any friends all throughout highschool. Im honestly...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & AgencyStigma & Bullying+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 22, 2024
1 points

Depends from the country you live in. In my we have private rehabs and psychotherapists, so everything is kept from disclosure. Anyone having issues may visit and get help in private. State institut...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2024
2 points

Every time I go to this subreddit I see that my life will only get worse going into the future and how I’ll never have a social life like others nor would I go into the career I want...

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2024
3 points

You have to take control the best you can. Hoping and waiting won’t work. Try some speech therapy’s out and see which works best for you. You (pretty much all stutterers) need to see a mental health t...

Emotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Helplessness & AgencySeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2024
6 points

Sorry for long comment... I stutter also, I am 28 years old, I stuttered a lot when I was a child, then in my teen years I almost didn't stutter at all, and even those few blocks I had were fastly ove...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & AgencyFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2024
3 points

Nah I don't think so. No one is perfect. There's always something that people feel insecure about. Either it's some character flaw or doubting once intelligence / imposter syndrome or self conscious a...

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2024
1 points

I totally understand where you are coming from. No matter how much I tell myself I won’t let my stutter hold me back , it still does. I’ve become so used to adapting my behavior around my speech that ...

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commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2024
3 points

I don’t think I can count the amount of opportunities I’ve missed out in life due to my stuttering. I wish I could be born again lol...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyQuality of Life
commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2024
1 points

I know that I shouldn’t let it hold me back, but in reality, most jobs in my field require fluent speech. So if someone doesn’t hire me because they’re looking for a fluent employee, they are not disc...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2024
2 points

> but you are more than your stutter. Blah blah blah. Stuttering has caused me to lose everything, It is the ultimate dictator in my life....

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & AgencyShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2024
1 points

I understand you completely, but it would be too much mental pressure with the stuttering 8 hours every day...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency