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commentr/StutterJul 1, 2024
7 points

victim mentality can really sabotage people in the long run but I’d like to experience dating a women who stutters, would def be a peak human experience for me but I’ve only ever met one and that was ...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Dating & RomanceHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJul 1, 2024
21 points

"The "burden" society places on men is bigger than that of women. The burden of performance on men is greater than that of a woman." Yes, men have burdens placed on them by society, but so do woman. ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyDating & RomanceFriendships & Belonging+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 1, 2024
-22 points

Yes.. stuttering is not a fun experience for either sexes. I am not dismissing the female experience but I understand why a guy will argue that stuttering is worse for men than women. The "burden" soc...

Social & RelationshipsSchool & WorkEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersDating & RomanceEmployment & Career+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 1, 2024
81 points

I am a woman who stutter (severe stutter). My life is a nightmare. I don't have a job. My parents and other people never understood me. School was a nightmare. I don't understand why stuttering men th...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentSchool & Academic LifeEmployment & Career+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 1, 2024
38 points

The people doing this choose to be a victim of their situation and can't fathom that women get their own version of social hell from stuttering....

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & AgencyShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterJul 1, 2024
51 points

Never going to get a job

Never going to get a job I can't do this anymore. I just bombed another phone interview. I graduated two years ago, and I'm still jobless. I can't seem to get past the initial phone screening interv...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesHiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
commentr/StutterJul 1, 2024
2 points

I don’t relate, I don’t have any traits or achievements to feel accomplished about. I stutter severely and my environment isn’t stutter friendly but I’m glad you have bravery to push yourself...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Helplessness & AgencySeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterJun 30, 2024
4 points

Wow, that's very interesting what you've written. Intriguing, I will look for more information on this topic. Your hypothetical question is very difficult to answer because anyone who has been struggl...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterJun 30, 2024
64 points

Lowest point of my life

Lowest point of my life I just saw a group of friends whom I haven't seen in a while in a tram. They didn't know much about my stuttering and when we started talking I was blocking and twitching all o...

Emotional Experience
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & AgencyFrustration & Anger
postr/StutterJun 30, 2024
46 points

My stuttering disappeared after a strange incident last week...

My stuttering disappeared after a strange incident last week... Hi all It is my first post here, however I am here often, reading most the topics. Could my stuttering be due to neurological reasons...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Neurological & BrainEnergy & Biological RhythmsHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 28, 2024
1 points

You offered something, that would "require very uncomfortable work." What that work could be? Our correspondent said that he tried speech therapy, medication and it didn't help. Sure, he can try m...

Emotional Experience
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & AgencyHope & Motivation
postr/StutterJun 28, 2024
4 points

Again

Again Hello, first off want to give some background, I live in a 3rd world country but haven't really been poor, cant complain. I just turned 18 and all of my life I spent it dreading this moment. Im...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
postr/StutterJun 27, 2024
5 points

Stuttering Communities in Denmark

Stuttering Communities in Denmark I'm an international master's student living in Copenhagen, Denmark. I have had a moderate to severe stutter since childhood. After my bachelor's degree, I gathered t...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-PerceptionFriendships & Belonging+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 27, 2024
4 points

I am literally offended by the fact that this is not seen as a disability in our country. How am I as a person supposed to compete with fluent speakers? NOT TO MENTION THE OTHER PSYCHIC PROBLEMS IT CA...

School & WorkIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Access & RightsStigma & BullyingHelplessness & Agency+1 more
postr/StutterJun 27, 2024
15 points

Adults here, how do you meet people?

Adults here, how do you meet people? I’m not talking about those in college or school(in person ofc), but people with 9-5 jobs working full time. How do you guys actually meet people besides at your j...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterJun 27, 2024
5 points

Yes, it does seem that we are in a perpetual sequence of daily trying to push that boulder up a mountain only to have to continually repeat that process. It’s that daily effort to conquer that enormou...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyAcceptance & PrideSadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterJun 27, 2024
3 points

Like many of us in this group, I’ve been there. Being unable to communicate is completely frustrating, made worse because we don’t have a visible disability and some people think we are just anxious o...

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Helplessness & AgencyResearch & ResourcesHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJun 26, 2024
3 points

I can comment from personal experience that my younger sister (10 year age gap) used to just around all day on her phone or iphone when she was a teenager and didn’t want to talk to anyone, do anythin...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyAnxiety & Social JudgmentFriendships & Belonging+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 26, 2024
2 points

As the other person stated, “I don’t want to” could very well be a *cover* for many things : difficulty understanding the issue herself, , not wanting to let you down with the truth, being *unable to ...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Helplessness & AgencyBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterJun 26, 2024
1 points

When it comes to stuttering it happend in 2020 honestly dont remember when it actually happend exactly but do remember the year. Its quite bad for me, i cant have meaningful conversations with freinds...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Employment & CareerFrustration & AngerPropositionality & Weight+1 more