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commentr/StutterJan 2, 2018
5 points

Great post! I'll be starting a job soon which will involve speaking almost daily in front of small groups. I've done this before at work, albeit in a different, more familiar environment. I'm fluent...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Public SpeakingAnxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJan 2, 2018
1 points

I honestly didn't stutter at all during the interview or the first weeks working, because my mind was so occupied with the new enviroment I guess my brain didn't "clam up" to cause me to stutter. I d...

School & WorkAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 2, 2018
1 points

I'm from USA and my field is business. I went to CC most of my college years until my last year I got a degree in business admin. I'm not applying for jobs where voice communication skills are greatly...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 2, 2018
3 points

> There's a lot I'm afraid of and insecure about lol Yes, we're all afraid and insecure of how we *think* things are going to go. My point is, things are rarely going to end up as awful as we wor...

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Anxiety & Social JudgmentValidation & Empathy
postr/StutterJan 2, 2018
28 points

The 2018 Stuttering New Years Challenge

The 2018 Stuttering New Years Challenge Some of you may know me from the Discord, so you've probably already heard this. A lot of us have issues with avoidance and anxiety. Many of us don't use our vo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 2, 2018
3 points

1. You know all those daydreams and fantasies you have of being completely fluent, which makes you suddenly all suave and awesome, and then you ride off into the sunset on a dragon while perfectly rec...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJan 2, 2018
2 points

Help with my situation - can't get a job, afraid I can't get a boyfriend, have no friends and so lost and confused with my thoughts

Help with my situation - can't get a job, afraid I can't get a boyfriend, have no friends and so lost and confused with my thoughts Hi all. Thanks for reading and replying in advanced. Looking for new...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 2, 2018
1 points

The suggestions were about customer service, but she asked me to add something to my greeting that I know I will block on before too long so I went back to my old greetings. I pray I don't get called ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 2, 2018
4 points

These feelings really suck.. and most of us have it at some point, but we must SURVIVE these situations (not excel at them, just survive) and believe in improvement. I believe a stutterer reaches succ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideHope & MotivationAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJan 2, 2018
9 points

Is anyone else's self esteem shattered?

Is anyone else's self esteem shattered? I'm at work now, stuttered all day. I'm about to get off in 10 minutes (thank You Lord). As soon as I get to my bedroom I am turning off all my lights and I'm g...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterJan 2, 2018
5 points

Today I found out my boss can listen to my calls

Today I found out my boss can listen to my calls After I answered and redirected a call to our store my boss called me and told me how I could have said something better and told me how I could have a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 2, 2018
1 points

Maybe you stutter with family members because they know that you stutter and they are maybe looking at you in a way where they are 'waiting' for you to stutter, -> You subconsciously think about th...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentExperiential Association
commentr/StutterJan 2, 2018
3 points

I think about it pretty often. I think i would be quiet even without a stutter. I've had a stutter since i was 6-7 years old, it got a bit better over the years and now it's a mild one. I rarely stutt...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
postr/StutterJan 1, 2018
13 points

Is my stuttering purely psychological?

Is my stuttering purely psychological? Hi, I've been struggling with my stutter since I was 6-7 years old (I'm 25 now) and I was wondering if my problem is psychological, neurological or just a habit ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionGenetic & Family FactorsStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
postr/StutterDec 31, 2017
10 points

I hate it (well, not really hate since it's a nice gesture) but when cashiers, cab drivers etc randomly say merry christmas, happy new year and so on I usually stutter with the reply

I hate it (well, not really hate since it's a nice gesture) but when cashiers, cab drivers etc randomly say merry christmas, happy new year and so on I usually stutter with the reply I stutter with th...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 29, 2017
4 points

I play counter strike but making calls where the enemy is can be really tough because if you do it a second late it can mean a lost round...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 29, 2017
3 points

Yeah I know, that was just a meme. I learned a lot this year actually, changed my personality quite a lot and am actually able to talk to people without too much fear....

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 28, 2017
3 points

+1 for Seinfeld Isn’t being the person not talking worse than being the person who stutters? I feel like that unless you’re just gorgeous and can pull off the aloof disinterested stranger vibe, it’s ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 28, 2017
1 points

More annoying for me is how, on occasion I just can speak very very clearly in social interactions. No problems with word retrieval at all, no tension. At those times it's like something switched in m...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/FlightOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterDec 27, 2017
2 points

I can remember doing a presentation back in 7th grade, and I was quite nervous about it. When I was called to go, I went, and that’s where it went south. About halfway through my speech, my teacher co...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic Life+1 more