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postr/StutterNov 15, 2019
8 points

An older stutter-er

An older stutter-er 27M as someone who stutters with blocks mostly, feeling outta breath in between words. And having difficulty with vowels. How do you guys deal with the dating world? I have a very ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2019
7 points

If you stutter just blame it on "new dentures". They'll understand....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterNov 14, 2019
1 points

I remember jobs when answering with a script was mandatory- no word changing or editing. I got in trouble at one restaurant job for major word changing. I didn't have the stones to say: "you know ho...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterNov 13, 2019
2 points

I just took a long deep breath. What usually happens is after I catch my breath I try again where I left off and I still continue to block. Sometimes I would start my whole sentence but then I find my...

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commentr/StutterNov 13, 2019
2 points

I used to have a speech therapist. As a kid I would stomp my foot or clap my hands to get myself to stop blocking. She taught me to stop doing that but recently it’s been starting up again. Sometime...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesMindfulness & Breathing
commentr/StutterNov 13, 2019
3 points

I think it's more the anxiety of knowing you have to say a certain word or sentence that you're going to stutter on, but rather than tell the person what you want to say, you just play it off like you...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterNov 13, 2019
12 points

Just got my first serious job! Sharing my thoughts.

Just got my first serious job! Sharing my thoughts. Hi, I'm 21 old male, dropped daily math college last year and decided i'll take life in my own hands, decided to study weekly and take up some desk ...

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postr/StutterNov 13, 2019
4 points

Some experience with mild/medium stuttering

Some experience with mild/medium stuttering Hi! In my daily life, I speak another language, not English, but my experience with stuttering is probably similar to many people here. I struggle with cer...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
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commentr/StutterNov 13, 2019
1 points

I’ve always struggled with vocabulary and word choice (I don’t always make sense when speaking even though I know what I’m trying to say and tend to blank mid-sentence on what word to use). I’ve been ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterNov 13, 2019
1 points

I'm quite bad at 'filtering' how I deal with my stutter. I use substitutions a lot, and reasonably often come up with an alternative mid stutter, take it, and immediately regret it because it didn't f...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterNov 13, 2019
1 points

I'm the opposite of you, I stutter the most when ordering food. I have to rehearse what I'm gonna order five times in advance lol...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterNov 13, 2019
2 points

Don't deny yourself the empathy of others. It's a social resource you can benefit from. It helps to talk to people about stuff, and this goes for stuttering too. - If you didn't stutter - if you wer...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterNov 12, 2019
19 points

Who else can relate?

Who else can relate? Who else pretends to forget what they were going to say when they feel that they’re gonna stutter?...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterNov 12, 2019
2 points

That's fair, I definitely have to be careful who I do it around. Can't really say fuck words all the time at work, so I just drown out my stutters with a drawn out "uuuhhhhhmmmm" like hitting reset o...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionStrategic Swearing/Cursing
commentr/StutterNov 12, 2019
1 points

Csnt say I've tried that. But I don't recall ever really stuttering on swear words. That said - I'm trying to reduce the amount I swear. The people I hang out with now aren't the swearing kind I hun...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionStrategic Swearing/Cursing
commentr/StutterNov 12, 2019
-2 points

Even with the fancy "I dont want to talk to anybody" ordering devices, they still messed up my order. Guess who had cheeseless McChickens for lunch and so wanted to complain about it?...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
commentr/StutterNov 12, 2019
2 points

I used to also use some filler words to initiate my speech! and I kept on using that crutch until I realized the reason I would tend to struggle at the beginning of speech because I put unnecessarily ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterNov 12, 2019
1 points

Currently I'm reading Lee G Lovvet's book and found few helpful advices how to go around first feared sound. You can simply skip first letter or syllable and people either won't notice or care. Surel...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionSituational VariabilityVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterNov 11, 2019
1 points

Congrats on the new position - bravo! I understand where you are coming from on the introducing yourself part, it sucks, i know :( During your on-boarding, will you have a trainer or someone who you w...

School & WorkAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerAvoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 11, 2019
1 points

at times, the stutter will happen when I know I need to say my name out loud (ie. going around a table and saying your name, ice breaker, next person to shake hands with/introduce yourself with, etc)....

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