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commentr/StutterSep 16, 2022
7 points

Its okay, I always talk to my cats/dogs to practice my verbal communication, plus they don’t judge. They just look at me all confused when I have blocks....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Experiential AssociationVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterSep 15, 2022
2 points

" I have to work with all my strength to get rid of this anxiety" If you are bothered by this feeling "stutter fear", then you are putting your attention on the fear in order to anticipate a stutter ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Overthinking & MonitoringTrauma & PsychologicalVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 15, 2022
2 points

Letting go of fear doesn't mean to remove stutter fear (or anxiety). Letting go means that the fear is still in your mind and you really experience its discomfort, but you don't care, it doesn't bothe...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterSep 15, 2022
2 points

"it is a fear of stammering, which makes me stammer ... I have to work with all my strength to get rid of this anxiety" You said you want to get rid of anxiety/fear. First, getting rid of anxiety or ...

Causes & VariabilityCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Trauma & PsychologicalMindset shiftVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 14, 2022
2 points

Yup, exposure therapy is so helpful. But the key is to proactively put yourself in stressful speaking situations. If you have the mindset of dreading them, you will feel like a victim when you find yo...

Coping & AdvocacyCauses & Variability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterSep 14, 2022
4 points

"What bothers me most is the anticipatory anxiety that occurs when I have to say a word with which I already know I am stopping." I recommend, observe you anticipatory anxiety "I will stutter" and in...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringOverthinking & MonitoringVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 14, 2022
2 points

I've tried hypnose therapy for stuttering with positive results (only temporary). The hypno therapist could aim to replace your discomfortable feeling into a happy feeling (that you had when your brot...

Causes & VariabilityCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Trauma & PsychologicalVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterSep 14, 2022
2 points

Great insights here! I would also mention, “exposure therapy” helped me a lot. As difficult as it was, I joined Toastmasters and took a Dale Carnegie class and forced myself into uncomfortable speakin...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureHope & MotivationSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterSep 13, 2022
4 points

I stutter on purpose and then tell people I stutter. Then tell them they don’t have to fill in my words for me but they can if they want. That let’s them know I’m independent as a speaker and let’s th...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterSep 12, 2022
27 points

today

today Went to the clinic just now... d4mn I felt dumb as f* bcs the receptionist ask me the same question 3 times, she thought I didn't hear her, it's just that I have a block for a few moment lmao. A...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 11, 2022
3 points

If you are afraid of having blocks when talking, just exposure therapy and disclosure, in which you just block openly to your audience and disclose you have stuttering. It is pretty normal in PWS' min...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 11, 2022
3 points

If you cannot follow through w a complicated course, may I suggest something fairly simple? It involves mostly the hard work of doing the total opposite of your current speaking habits. 1. Discl...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterSep 11, 2022
6 points

To be able to get out of your comfort zone, even a little is a huge success. There are people who are staying inside their confort zone for years. It is big inspriation for me and for many others. Wh...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 10, 2022
1 points

One of the life lessons that I've learned is that you need to take care of yourself because other people are not reliable. That's to say, I've had a hard time with my stutter/dysfluency and at times I...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesQuality of Life
commentr/StutterSep 9, 2022
1 points

Most SLPs actually have no training in dysfluency. They treat it like an articulation disorder. If you can pronounce all sounds, they are more likely to harm you. Actually, there is a lot of proof ...

Causes & VariabilityCoping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Situational VariabilityVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterSep 9, 2022
3 points

Beauty! That's how it's done. I don't mind 'fighting' through it during conversation with a real close friend or family member. I'm at my least anxious and able to laugh about it after so why not...

Coping & AdvocacyCauses & Variability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureNeurological & Brain
commentr/StutterSep 9, 2022
2 points

Yea I get what you mean. I mostly improved myself through forceful exposure therapy and still advocate for doing what makes you uncomfortable So a dislike doesn't become a fear or phobia but it would ...

Coping & AdvocacyCommunity & Support
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterSep 8, 2022
4 points

Oh i've read your last post and it is really helpful. I've always wanted to give myself an exposure therapy (talk to strangers) but i'm afraid it would be too much for me. Now I think it'd be best if ...

Therapy & ProfessionalCoping & Advocacy
Seeking TherapyVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterSep 7, 2022
1 points

So choose for stopping compulsion or make a choose-not-compulsion mentality and simulate this feeling or anchor when you stutter...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 6, 2022
2 points

My advice would be to observe number 3 and 4 (anticipating your name)(building pressure in anticipation) and then learn to not react to it. Just recognize these triggers (which is called acceptance) a...

Coping & Advocacy
Mindset shiftVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure