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commentr/StutterOct 18, 2022
4 points

Hey, I've started seeing these situations as opportunity in disguise, this gives you an opportunity to practice, and this mindset has made my life infinitely better. When the bus driver asks your n...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAuthenticity vs. MaskingMindset shift+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 18, 2022
3 points

There could be a multitude of reasons: * maybe you got an instant stutterfree flow of words because you didn't perceive stutter triggers * Maybe you didn't justify or anticipate stopping articulators...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionCycles & RandomnessVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterOct 17, 2022
2 points

"Is there any way I can reduce this to an extent?" Maybe you can reduce it to an extent with this method: If you do a repetition or block, then position your articulators to the next position (inste...

Coping & Advocacy
Fluency TechniquesVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterOct 16, 2022
2 points

Recently I was also thinking if I have in my brain the ability to persuade myself like with a negative autosuggestion that I will not say something, therefore I must also have the ability to persuade ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 16, 2022
2 points

**Question 1**: you mentioned different modalities (cbt, act, dct). Would you also consider other modalities for our hardwired stutter triggers? (erp, inference-based cbt, mindfulness, dbt, GOTTMAN, P...

Community & SupportCoping & Advocacy
Advice RequestsFluency TechniquesVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterOct 14, 2022
2 points

"Slowly trying to unlearn and to stutter more freely." Could you please go more in detail on how exactly you try to unlearn and stutter more freely? What did you learn in you experience by doing thi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterOct 12, 2022
9 points

The repetitions are more “healthy” than the blocks and more “understandable” to most listener. Do some brief voluntary repetitions that you cccan control. Make eye contact, begin speaking slowly....

Coping & Advocacy
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureFluency Techniques
postr/StutterOct 11, 2022
9 points

Stutter when alone?

Stutter when alone? Anyone else also stutter when alone? It may be a lot less so then with people but still there?...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Experiential AssociationVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterOct 11, 2022
3 points

the course teaches self acceptance. know that you always will be a stutterer but now have the tools to help be eloquent with it. the first thing I did was while waiting at the train station after the...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureMindset shift
commentr/StutterOct 11, 2022
0 points

Man, I don’t know if this is your fault from here. You explained yourself, genuinely apologized. Maybe ask her if you can go out into public with her and fake stutter to strangers. Not to mock her but...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Shame & EmbarrassmentVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterOct 11, 2022
2 points

Yes! I did that, in the sense of I said the things that I currently thought about the situation to them and sad that I didn’t do it with bad intentions and that I took it as a compliment. Even there,...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Shame & EmbarrassmentVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterOct 10, 2022
1 points

I’m sorry to hear you’ve been through all this. Did your program have a strategy for responding to relapse? That’s what you need. The McGuire program has it, and I’ve been able to stay pretty much flu...

Coping & AdvocacyTherapy & ProfessionalCauses & Variability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureTherapy ExperiencesStress & Fight/Flight+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 10, 2022
14 points

Most people are so unaware of what dysfluency actually is, they have no earthly concept that “forgetting” is a common block avoidance tactic. Most people won’t say it out loud, but I think our une...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2022
2 points

Thus creates the very very rare situation. After my sore/painful talking the other day, I needed something soothing for my throat and I wanted to challenge myself to use my skills. So I got a drive ...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureQuality of Life
commentr/StutterOct 8, 2022
1 points

You really went out and did 75-100 contacts with strangers? Exaggerated stuttering on purpose? And used your most feared word 75-100 times? And humiliation is an internal feeling. Nobody feels humil...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterOct 8, 2022
2 points

Continue to put yourself in situations where you stutter. Practice makes perfect...

Coping & Advocacy
Voluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterOct 3, 2022
1 points

One last thing - 2 years ago, my heat/hot water went out for 3 days in cold winter weather. I convinced myself I “wasn’t using thermostat correctly” bc I was so scared to call. When I eventually c...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterOct 3, 2022
1 points

All very true. If I had to guess, are you uncomfortable with the “starting slowly” and voluntary stuttering/disclosure?...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterOct 3, 2022
3 points

when they invent the forgetting machine, i will be the first to offer myself and forget my stutter, to see if i would stutter again...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 2, 2022
1 points

Sorry if this isn't exactly what the discord is for, but I'm a covert stutterer, which means I'm really good at hiding my stutter. I would love to be able to get more comfortable stuttering in front o...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Hiding & ConcealmentVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure