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postr/StutterJan 27, 2023
18 points

I just hit a low point.

I just hit a low point. Just a couple of minutes ago I bawled my eyes out in tears thinking about past interactions with strangers that went horribly bad for me. For the first time in like half a seco...

Emotional Experience
Sadness & HopelessnessSuicidal Ideation & High DistressHope & Motivation
postr/StutterJan 24, 2023
60 points

It's pathetic how it's 2023 and still nothing for Stuttering

It's pathetic how it's 2023 and still nothing for Stuttering Its extremely sad and frustrating how it's 2023 and theres still no solution to speech disorders. Fucking hate how they have shit for depre...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationFrustration & AngerSadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterJan 24, 2023
1 points

I've already accepted that I will live like this until the end of my days. I no longer have the strength to fight, to look forever for a cure for stuttering, to force myself into society and each time...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency+3 more
postr/StutterJan 23, 2023
55 points

Just tired of this disability.

Just tired of this disability. Tired of having to silence myself all the time because I have this stupid fucking stutter. It's to the point where I have no friends, dont speak to my family (that I liv...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & AgencyLoneliness & Isolation+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2023
4 points

Gotta say, warehouse jobs pay $20-$25/hr in the southern US. No speaking to anyone. That’s decent money, easy-ish and may offer overtime also. And you got a car to get there. I did it making $14/hr in...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerSadness & HopelessnessHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2023
1 points

Instead of wishing we weren't born so we wouldn't have to be like this...we should have wished are parents didn't decide to kids!! We didn't ask to be born!!! We were born because our folks decided to...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & AgencyTrauma & Psychological
commentr/StutterJan 21, 2023
5 points

I feel incredibly down about general life at points. The best thing I can do is repeat to myself that these feelings are temporary, then just wait for the sad to pass. It's especially bad when I can...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Sadness & HopelessnessEnergy & Biological Rhythms
commentr/StutterJan 20, 2023
1 points

100000% true. The amount of anxiety and fear the 'hope' gives is so much that at times the sheer act of living becomes something that requires so much energy. At least for me....

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJan 17, 2023
3 points

So I just replied with this somewhere else and I'll share it here as well. In terms of the uncontrollable feeling we foster and the depression we bring up; ​ I believe we have 2 states. ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionAnxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterJan 16, 2023
1 points

I understand even I get super anxious and depressed too. Maybe that's the reason. I have always been a sensitive person. I almost feel like my breathing is irregular and these double breathes are fr...

Emotional ExperienceMeds & Substances
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & HopelessnessRecreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)
commentr/StutterJan 15, 2023
1 points

Well, I seldomly get the symptom nowadays. Maybe once a month when I am feeling down and sad. What I noticed that triggered it was my depression & anxiety, was constantly worried about every littl...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightTrauma & PsychologicalSadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterJan 14, 2023
2 points

i spent the last 10 years of my life doing exactly what you say 'cured' your stutter and here i am still stuttering maybe even worse than i did when i was a young teen. congrats on finding the cure fo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & AngerSadness & Hopelessness+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 14, 2023
3 points

Hey OP, My advice would be to be honest with your parents now about your depression and anxiety. I tried to keep it held in and had a full on mental break at age 26. Everything you stuff down now wil...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Trauma & PsychologicalSadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterJan 13, 2023
1 points

Even if my stutter were magically cured it won't get rid of all the bad feelings that come with growing up with a stutter. It is what it is....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Sadness & HopelessnessAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJan 13, 2023
3 points

Accepting your stutter is not the same as saying “my stutter is beautiful and I don’t hate it all”. Acceptance is understanding the realities of your stutter and continuing to try and live your life ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Sadness & HopelessnessAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterJan 13, 2023
12 points

I feel like I can hardly speak to my parents

I feel like I can hardly speak to my parents I was born with my stutter I'm currently 19 and the last few years my stutter has just gotten worse I feel like my parents can hardly understand me at time...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & Hopelessness
postr/StutterJan 12, 2023
43 points

I hate having a stutter

I hate having a stutter One of my friends just asked me to write down what I wanted to say bc she couldn’t understand me… that just felt so demeaning and really hurt my feelings. Wishing yet again I w...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentSadness & Hopelessness
postr/StutterJan 12, 2023
16 points

Dream Crushed because of Stuttering

Dream Crushed because of Stuttering Just a little vent here… For a while now, my dream job was to work as an ASL interpreter. I love the deaf community, interacting using sign, and interpreting would’...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Helplessness & AgencySadness & HopelessnessEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJan 10, 2023
3 points

I am also a PhD student, but with a stutter. 1) When I experience negative emotions I usually withdraw and watch tv/netflix, or scroll on reddit. But aside the technologies, only sleep makes me feel...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Sadness & HopelessnessHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJan 9, 2023
9 points

These negative emotions normally occur in situations where technological techniques would be of limited use. IE in a conversation, in a meeting, whatever. The more persistent negative emotions cause...

Emotional Experience
Sadness & HopelessnessAnxiety & Social Judgment