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commentr/StutterOct 10, 2020
17 points

I like to think of my stutter as a relationship, sort of similar to one you might have with your pet. Depending on the day, your stutter can range from being bad to being unnoticeable depending on you...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. MaskingMindset shift+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2020
3 points

Agree to everyone here. I'm 27 and have stuttered since childhood. Only solution is to accept it as a part of your life. But I'm far from accepting it. I stutter and sweat and fear saying my name, tal...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2020
3 points

Its actually right. My stutter is pretty mild and most people dont even notice i stutter.Almost always i can dodge feared words and tbey are nit that common for me. But the fear of stuttering made me ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2020
1 points

I have the same issue with Spanish. I’m Australian but my family is from Spain, so I natively understand it. I think it’s the added pressure and anxiety around speaking in a different way. It just add...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Situational VariabilityAnxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterOct 8, 2020
1 points

I can relate because I feel the exact same pain but I couldn't find anything online about stuttering actually causing physical pain. Atleast you could give presentations. I never could, and the few ...

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Frustration & AngerAnxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterOct 8, 2020
2 points

I've never developed good social skills and that combined with stuttering and that combined with talking to a girl I like just makes me unbearable. I can't even look at them afterwards. I attempt to g...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 8, 2020
1 points

No one i have close relationships know about my feelings and I won't let them know. I'm too scared of what could happen. Everything could change or nothing at all....

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Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 8, 2020
3 points

It could be a possibility! Whenever I think about my stutter and rehearse my words it tends to make me stutter when speaking. Just go with the flow and chill! Or maybe when you rehearse it doesn’t mak...

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Overthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 8, 2020
1 points

Yeah.. I just guess I'm little heartbroken by her since last year she said to me "I know you have trouble speaking but you did well" (or sth like that) and now she does this.. But idk she is that kind...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 8, 2020
1 points

The first thing is to not stress about it. The more you stress, the worse the stuttering will become. It’s like a self perpetuating feedback loop! It’s ok to stutter... ppl don’t notice and definitely...

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Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterOct 8, 2020
1 points

Sometimes a sore throat can be cause by acid reflux, anxiety can trigger acid reflux and make it worse. I’d try to look into that side of it as well. I’ve had the same pain and taking care of my acid ...

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Trauma & PsychologicalAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 8, 2020
1 points

Cocktail of this, but huge anxiety at first, embarrassment during presentation, cus of a severe stutter and anger afterwards....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 8, 2020
1 points

It is possible she doesn't fully understand it. Sure, she knows you have blocks, but it's all the other ways that a stutter effects body language and the actual meaning of the words you say. These thi...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic Life
postr/StutterOct 8, 2020
13 points

A developed stutter

A developed stutter Hi everyone! I am a 21 F and I have never stuttered in my life, not including the usual slip up of words here and there. Recently, I’ve started stuttering pretty bad. I’ve noticed ...

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Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 8, 2020
11 points

This was heartbreaking to read. Hang in there. You should talk to your teacher. Stuttering is a disability. In the US, it is recognized under the disabilities act. Do not shame yourself for it getting...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentAccess & Rights
postr/StutterOct 8, 2020
34 points

Throat hurts

Throat hurts So basically my stuttering got worse again.. I had a presentation at school and got a C. I dot rly care about the grade but basically everyone agreed she just rated my on my speech and h...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesStress & Fight/FlightFrustration & Anger+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 8, 2020
1 points

My stutter wasnt there always. And that persona is the closest to my behaviour before it started. As i said its not really an act but its not exactly sincere either. Its a part of me. The whimp is my ...

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Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 7, 2020
1 points

I can really resonate with that man. Holy. I used to have a very similar front of the cocky asshole around girls. Becuase "i couldn't be a nice guy" but really all I was hiding was my true self. I w...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 7, 2020
1 points

Yea the pity used to hurt me the most as well. What emotions were at play the most? Anxiety? Embarrassment? Anger? Etc...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 7, 2020
1 points

It's a self-fulfilling prophecy. We often stutter "for" people which is why we should never apologize in advance and tell people you stutter before you speak to them because you wouldn't want to look ...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment