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commentr/StutterAug 18, 2021
2 points

I'm in my mid 40's. Mine was bad as a child and that was rough, but it got better over the years to the point where some new friends in high school didn't know I had a speech problem. College was ro...

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commentr/StutterAug 18, 2021
7 points

For phone calls I like to have a pen and paper with me and I write the word as I’m saying it to avoid or stop blocks. It works pretty well especially with saying my name and spelling it. The writing ...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterAug 18, 2021
9 points

Remember the harder you try the harder you fail. I pretend I’m talking to myself or my dog. Both are very low tension and stuttered hardly ever. It’s only when we try really hard and push out every wo...

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postr/StutterAug 18, 2021
2 points

Stutter issue

Stutter issue Hello I am 24. I have a stuttering proble. When I am alone, I don't stutter I can speak with myself fluently. And when I am with known people I stutter a bit plus infront of them sometim...

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commentr/StutterAug 18, 2021
11 points

I can go on and on about this, but I'll try to keep it short. Feel free to check out my other posts or dm me:) I started my "journey" at 24. I fluency chased my heart out. I always tried to be posit...

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commentr/StutterAug 17, 2021
2 points

Hi, I moved in Germany in 2018 and started to learn German myself 3 Months before that in Internet. Try it too, you can surely manage A1/A2 on your own, then it will be a little easier. It will be ha...

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commentr/StutterAug 17, 2021
1 points

I definitely made it seem like OP had to make an essay about his stutter and his experiences lol, I didn’t mean that at all. What I meant was, not allowing the potential employer to see the stutter as...

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commentr/StutterAug 17, 2021
2 points

I'm not against advertising. Many stutterers find it helpful. Its good to try at least once and see what works for you. I may have misinterpreted you, but I don't think it's necessary spending seve...

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commentr/StutterAug 17, 2021
1 points

Don’t you think that disclosing the stutter eases anxiety, breaks the ice, and positions OP for a better smoother riding interview rather than doing it all covertly? Depending what OP would be doing...

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commentr/StutterAug 17, 2021
2 points

While it's your option to disclose, I am not sure it's necessary to spend several minutes, specifically in the beginning, talking about your stutter. It's retail. They want someone honest, dependabl...

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commentr/StutterAug 17, 2021
1 points

Probably not what you want to hear, but I would recommend against it. I’ve had several close friends, roommates, family members, etc join fraternities and most regretted it in the long run. The pledgi...

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postr/StutterAug 17, 2021
0 points

Tips for Rushing a Fraternity with a Stutter

Tips for Rushing a Fraternity with a Stutter Since middle school and high school, I have dealt with a stutter mainly driven by anxiety—I don’t stutter around my family but do in most other situations ...

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commentr/StutterAug 17, 2021
1 points

Yeahh man but thankfully I got a job interview tomorrow on a retail job tryna get out my comfort zone as much as possible...

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commentr/StutterAug 17, 2021
6 points

Have to remember that stuttering is “trying not to stutter” so just be ok with it and stutter away. It sounds easy but most of us hate losing so much we can’t let it go. Once you’re ok with it. You ...

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commentr/StutterAug 17, 2021
10 points

For me, it was working. Getting a job after high school and being forced to talk gradually got me out of it. I remember taking almost half an hour to tell an ice breaker in elementary school (not kidd...

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commentr/StutterAug 17, 2021
19 points

Mine got a lot better when I moved from avoidance behavior to going on the offense. Basically feeling the fear but forcing myself into speaking situations. Allowing myself to stutter openly to reduce ...

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commentr/StutterAug 17, 2021
1 points

Yes, sometimes. Sometimes stuttering gets worse, sometimes not. I noticed that i stutter less with strangers if i tell them that i stutter....

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commentr/StutterAug 17, 2021
2 points

I’m exactly the same, I’ve always been worse with my family, yet at work or I’m meeting someone for the first time I manage much better. My theory is that word substitution and creative management to ...

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commentr/StutterAug 17, 2021
4 points

First two paragraphs are so relatable other than the "You don’t run away from your problems". I've stopped taking phone calls for over an year now. Anyways, a really good read. congrats on your j...

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commentr/StutterAug 17, 2021
3 points

THOUSAND TIMES YES. Meeting somebody new, I have no issues whatsoever. Meanwhile I can barely get sentences out to my own parents and close friends. Everybody I tell this to seems to think its ass ba...

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