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commentr/StutterMar 12, 2018
1 points

I've done debates in front of large groups of people before. You can't just stop feeling something by telling yourself to stop(for example: don't think of a white elephant), but you can redirect focus...

Emotional Experience
Hope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMar 12, 2018
5 points

There is no cure. Speech therapy can help you learn tactics to deal with stuttering as it comes. Yoga/other can help with your breath. Mental health services can help you weather the frustration and i...

Therapy & ProfessionalCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Seeking TherapyMindfulness & BreathingHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 12, 2018
3 points

I meant that stutter is like a wave, and if you are at the peak you may not see the decline, but you HAVE TO belive that the decline exsists, because it does....

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Cycles & RandomnessHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMar 11, 2018
1 points

I change my perspective on how I’m feeling. When I’m stressed or scared or anxious about talking I remind myself that that panic feeling is actually my body getting prepared for me to do great. My hea...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMar 10, 2018
2 points

Highest total comp was ~$195K. Right now it's about $155K. I'm Sr. Software Engineer. When my comp was higher, I was managing, but I only did for 18 months at a different company than where I work now...

School & WorkIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerIdentity & Self-PerceptionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMar 9, 2018
2 points

I am not sure about the goal of this post. The salary really depends on your location and the profession that you are in. For example, a Software Engineer in one location can make a different wage tha...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMar 9, 2018
3 points

The sky is the limit brother. Get rid of the belief you are worth less because you stutter....

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMar 9, 2018
15 points

I'm a transportation engineer and make $60k in Pennsylvania. I know people who stutter who are/were a college professor (retired), vice principal of a school, VP of a company (retired, was also a Mar...

School & WorkIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerIdentity & Self-PerceptionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMar 7, 2018
5 points

What a great post and you definitely have the right mind set. I’m beyond scared to speak in front of groups. Luckily my job doesn’t require it but I do have to explain stuff to someone occasionally. I...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Hope & MotivationPublic Speaking
commentr/StutterMar 7, 2018
4 points

 Last time I had a presentation was 2 years ago. I had to speak for at least 5 minutes and my stutter as I said is so severe. Do it if you had to and you will not regret. The feeling afterwards is so ...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Public SpeakingHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMar 6, 2018
2 points

You're very welcome. He's probably feeling hopeless that any medication would help but we all react differently to head meds. Maybe the last one just didn't work well for him but you'll just have to w...

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Hope & MotivationValidation & EmpathyPersonal Stories
commentr/StutterMar 6, 2018
3 points

Hey there, as a person who is also on the McGuire program, , I can tell you that ups and downs are normal and expected, and the program isn't a "cure" and the techniques gives him control over his s...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Fluency TechniquesHope & MotivationDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMar 6, 2018
4 points

Just wanna say - I am just in my final year of a performance degree and I have a speech impediment. It started out as a stutter and has now developed into a stutter and full blown dysarthria. And so...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Situational VariabilityHope & MotivationAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2018
1 points

I've seen improvements in my own speech from both 1) sharing and expressing emotional things and 2) physical practice speaking. It sounds like you'd gain a lot from a friend to confide in, even if it ...

Causes & VariabilityCommunity & SupportEmotional Experience
Trauma & PsychologicalValidation & EmpathyHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMar 4, 2018
6 points

First: Don't pay attention to Dr. Phil. Listen to actual professionals instead. Second: If you feel like doing speech therapy again, definitely go do that! Therapy can be fickle in that it's not nece...

Community & SupportEmotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Advice RequestsValidation & EmpathyHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2018
1 points

I'm playing with the idea that to win you have to have confidence in what you say and that's what stifles the stutter. For me, when I get a phone call I'm more likely to stutter compared to if I call...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anticipating StutteringHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterFeb 26, 2018
14 points

Just wanted to share a little victory: I've been consistently running a D&D game!

Just wanted to share a little victory: I've been consistently running a D&D game! **Warning: Longish** (tl;dr at the bottom) My favorite hobby is tabletop RPG's, more commonly referred to as "Dun...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Fluency TechniquesHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2018
2 points

That's awesome man. I had a similar experience as a senior. I performed a poem in front of the whole school without stuttering. It felt great. This was 16 years ago. Somehow I've let my stutter contro...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Situational VariabilityHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 24, 2018
3 points

Awesome story man! This made my day. This is that breakthrough moment we can all have. It may not be on quite this big of a stage, it could be phonecall or a walking up and chatting with that cutie ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterFeb 24, 2018
34 points

Hey guys. I just performed infront of 900+ people on friday. I can finally say I did it. (With long ass story)

Hey guys. I just performed infront of 900+ people on friday. I can finally say I did it. (With long ass story) (Link to video below) I conquered my biggest fear and shit on its grave. It’s my last yea...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Mindset shiftHope & MotivationAvoidance & Substitution+1 more