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commentr/StutterMar 17, 2018
3 points

Yeah, I do understand it a bit. When I see ppl stutter on tv or on YouTube it's confronting, bc this is what others see when I stutter.........

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 17, 2018
8 points

I used to feel anxious and nervous hearing people stutter. Then I joined the discord stuttering chat group and just listened during voice chat to others stuttering. After a few weeks, not anxious and ...

Community & SupportEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 17, 2018
22 points

What you're experiencing is projection. You project your own feelings of your stutter towards other stutterers, which is why you find it uncomfortable to watch or listen. When you have a better se...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterMar 17, 2018
22 points

This is a hypocritical post and I feel bad..

This is a hypocritical post and I feel bad.. I have stuttered all my life, however when I meet people who also stutter or watch videos of it I just can't talk or watch the video for long... I feel so ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 17, 2018
1 points

What do you mean with that you caused your ex girlfriends emotional abuse? And the downward spiral you in is very common for people who stutter....

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterMar 16, 2018
11 points

I only stutter when I think I'm going to stutter.

I only stutter when I think I'm going to stutter. If I'm not thinking about stuttering at all, I don't stutter, but the moment I start thinking that I'll stutter, that's when I stutter. Its so frustra...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterMar 16, 2018
1 points

i hear ya, i would just give the dude a bit of a break, it sounds like he's been through a lot and he's trying to open up and share his story. the guy said he has low self-confidence and is feeling pr...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 16, 2018
2 points

Self reflection, knowing your stuttering and what techniques you’re using/not using is a crucial step towards familiarizing yourself with your own stutter. Cheers to you OP for sharing. Edited bec...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 16, 2018
2 points

I had the good fortune of making friends who weren't uncomfortable or awkward about my stutter, which helped a lot. Still, it's a constant battle. I look for small victories throughout the day to feel...

Community & SupportCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathySelf-Advocacy & BoundariesIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 13, 2018
1 points

In my experience people end up paying more attention to what you say than how you say it. At work or among friends, after maybe the initial shock, most people regardless of status see past it quite fa...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 12, 2018
1 points

I don't stutter but I fell in love with a guy who does. We met online, and it's one of the first things he wrote about himself. I thought it, and the way he told me about it, was extremely adorable, a...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 12, 2018
8 points

I mean, some days are rough and will always be rough. Later in life you start to care less about generally everything, including your stutter. So in that sense rough days happen less regularly. But I ...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 11, 2018
13 points

With my girl she thinks it's cute and likes it cuz it's makes me who I am. And she is also more protective of it then me. Like I could careless if I stutter around people or what they say but she gets...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 11, 2018
2 points

I also wish that there could be more research and education about stuttering, it's not just the general public; even stutterers don't have a clue as to what it is, which is clearly reflected in this s...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Research & ResourcesIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 10, 2018
1 points

It helps me if I say one syllable of my name so like a shortened version. For example Vincent to Vince, Patrick to Pat, Ricky to Rick. This might help you since it’s just a quick thing to say instea...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterMar 10, 2018
14 points

"Personal Perceptions and Perceived Public Opinion About Stuttering in the United States"

"Personal Perceptions and Perceived Public Opinion About Stuttering in the United States" I was just reading [this article from AJSLP](https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/28785764) (doi: 10.1044/2017_...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Stigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 10, 2018
5 points

Being open about it is HUGE. I was ashamed of my stutter for the longest time and preferred to pretend it didn't exist. Once I acknowledged it and accepted it as a part of my identity, stuttering co...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideIdentity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMar 10, 2018
2 points

Highest total comp was ~$195K. Right now it's about $155K. I'm Sr. Software Engineer. When my comp was higher, I was managing, but I only did for 18 months at a different company than where I work now...

School & WorkIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerIdentity & Self-PerceptionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMar 10, 2018
6 points

Just gotta say, as someone with a more visible disability, it's not more accepted, it's just a different type of not accepted. When I stuttered and didn't have anything else visible going on. It was...

Identity & Disability
Stigma & BullyingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 9, 2018
11 points

I know what you mean. You may be an extrovert but stuttering makes you appear like an introvert. Don't beat yourself up, you are not the only one......

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionLoneliness & Isolation