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commentr/StutterJun 24, 2023
3 points

I had low confidence dating in high school, but as I got older I learned there's a lot of girls who find it endearing. Like always, make sure the rest of what you present the world is as good as you c...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & PrideDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJun 24, 2023
3 points

First of all, I don't think anyone that stutter like to stutter, but it is what it is. We can't help it, so what is the best we can do? Accept that we stutter and try to work on the insecurities aroun...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJun 23, 2023
2 points

I've been a SDET for about 10 years. Found that some places will definitely judge you for your speech. The ones that don't are where you want to work at anyway. I recently landed my favorite company ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJun 23, 2023
2 points

bro i am a stutter and i do job in IT since 1 year ,changed two companies in this 1 year period. you wanna know what i got through many interviews i faced as a stammer. At my initial interviews where ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
commentr/StutterJun 23, 2023
2 points

> always let the HR know about my stutter before I start answering their questions, but it still affects me. This actually made people treat me worse in the job interview....

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJun 23, 2023
5 points

Approaching people is not easy! I feel like thats the hardest part since a hard stutter right at the start of even just saying “hi” makes me want to absolutely die. But after that initial intro, I’ve ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJun 23, 2023
2 points

I graduated with a CS degree in December 2020 and didn't get hired until the following July. I went through quite a few interviews. At first, I didn't disclose my stutter during the interviews and ju...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterJun 23, 2023
2 points

I haven't really considered confidence as positively or negatively impacting my speech until joining this sub, generally I attributed it to nerves. If I was nervous or anxious I would stutter more. Su...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJun 23, 2023
10 points

Hey OP, So sorry to hear things are tough for you with the job market currently Going into high pressure situations like job interviews with a stutter is no easy achievement and takes guts, so give...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJun 23, 2023
21 points

Computer Science Graduated - December 2022, Still Unemployed

Computer Science Graduated - December 2022, Still Unemployed Hello everyone, I hope you're all doing well. Ever since I was a kid, I've had a problem with stuttering. The interesting thing is, when ...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social JudgmentPreparation & Rehearsal
postr/StutterJun 22, 2023
8 points

Insight on stuttering

Insight on stuttering Hey, I´ve been writting a journal on my insights about stuttering and detailing common day´s events that lead me to stuttering. I want to see if I can indentify a patron on my bl...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentTrauma & Psychological
commentr/StutterJun 22, 2023
1 points

One of the reasons is that you aren't occupying your brain on when to pause incase the other person wants to chime in, how the other person is reacting, what to say if he reacts in a positive/negative...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterJun 22, 2023
1 points

First, health checkup. You'd hate to have an undiagnosed brain tumor or something. Make sure you mention the stuttering to your doctor. But also, what else is going on in your life? (I'm not necessa...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Stress & Fight/FlightTrauma & PsychologicalAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 22, 2023
7 points

I'm the same. I went for a dentist appointment. Spoke to the receptionist and really struggled but then I was perfectly fine with the dentist and the 2nd receptionist after the checkup was done. I fu...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Anxiety & Social JudgmentBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterJun 22, 2023
1 points

Why do I have blocks when I'm talking to a smoking hot girl...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Anxiety & Social JudgmentBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterJun 22, 2023
1 points

Maybe it was always there but right now in your life, the level of anxiety you’re experiencing may have exacerbated it enough to become more apparent. I’ve found my stuttering skyrockets when I’m anxi...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightCycles & RandomnessAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 22, 2023
2 points

Hey! It could be social anxiety. I have a stutter and social anxiety. My stutter can almost disappear for months at a time but I’m still nervous saying phrases to people and overthink what I’m about t...

Emotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSeeking TherapyTherapy Experiences
commentr/StutterJun 21, 2023
1 points

The care of what others think of you is the biggest cause of stuttering...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 21, 2023
13 points

Social anxiety maybe i have the same problem,i speak fluently when alone but as soon as i interact with people the brain just seems to flip and I stutter relentlessly....

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Anxiety & Social JudgmentBlocks & Stoppages
postr/StutterJun 21, 2023
1 points

24f/stutter/anxiety/unemployed/dealing w/ schizophrenic mom

24f/stutter/anxiety/unemployed/dealing w/ schizophrenic mom I had graduated from college in 2023 in speech pathology and after graduation I have only worked odd jobs in past 3 years (1) gopuff (ware...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & HopelessnessSuicidal Ideation & High Distress+3 more