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bro i am a stutter and i do job in IT since 1 year ,changed two companies in this 1 year period. you wanna know what i got through many interviews i faced as a stammer. At my initial interviews where i was fresher i was so afraid how i will face Hr call and i how i will face interviewer, i failed very often at starting 4-5 interviews but what i got, i am caring too much what i am speaking at front of interviewer that sucks man , when you always think in your mind on every words of your inteviewer is judging you . Here what i understood : 1. Hr or interviewer doesn't know about you personally and they don't care about you , so the opinion of these people don't matter for you(it's reality because people are genuinely interested in their own life shits, they will forgot about you what you said in interview after sometime and they back to their own life and doing their own shits). 2. What happen if you did worst stammering in that interview and you got rejection. So it is the end of life ,think about it (fuck this garbage out of your mind),learned from it and ready for the next rejection and after some interviews you will have guts and you will enjoy that process and one day after many rejection you will get better job and you wouldn't believe it how i did this shit done. 3. focus on other person bro while you are giving interview , more focus on yourself more fucked-up you got yourself. 4. speak slowly and get deep breadth at initial phase and then get your rhythm and speak what you wanted to speak and believe you are going good (i know it's sound crazy but it worked for me very often and would work for every stammer). 5.If i am preparing for interview, I still have fear and all though how i will talk to interviewer but i have believe on myself i am not weak even if i do stammer . being stammerer never define my abilities and my potential , i am more than this . 6. Go to youtube and watch carefully your favourite speaker , notice that they are calm,relax and not feeling any anxiety while talking . think about it when you are calm and relax you speak awesome and you know that , so apply for same while you are talking to people. 7. Ready for rejection not one but a series of rejection, but don't take it whole on yourself . it is a teacher , so learn how to use it for the betterment of your life journey.