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postr/StutterJan 15, 2019
28 points

Do people look at u like you’re slow when u stutter? Even speech therapists?

Do people look at u like you’re slow when u stutter? Even speech therapists? I work in healthcare and although I hide my stutter I do tend to slip up once in a while and whenever it happens people loo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 12, 2019
3 points

First of all, it's really great you're asking this question! I would say not to finish what he's trying to say - unless he asks you to. Maybe he will say at one point "you know what I mean" or "that ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentPropositionality & Weight+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 12, 2019
1 points

Let’s be honest now, Biden no longer stutters. You can also look up Obama and Bush stuttering compilation on YouTube but are they also stutterers? Are John Stossel and Emily Blunt stutterers? Are Bruc...

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Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
postr/StutterJan 12, 2019
12 points

do I wait, or do I complete the sentence?

do I wait, or do I complete the sentence? Alright, this is going to be a bit long because I really want to understand and make this new guest I have comfortable. I’m a bartender. I recently had this y...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+1 more
postr/StutterJan 11, 2019
6 points

Television

Television Hey hey, I'm back. I've recently been contacted by a TV studio asking me to participate on a TV show about teenagers and weight loss. However, I'm not sure if I'm confident due to my spee...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJan 11, 2019
8 points

I’m usually pretty quiet on groups of people I’m not 100% comfortable w and they probably see me as quiet and socially awkward when I just don’t want to stutter in front of them...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 11, 2019
3 points

Sorry; soap box speech here. Please don't cancel as a result of the stutter. It may ease the anxiety in the short-term, but you may have regrets. Think of how this job will set you up on your resume...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentMindset shift+3 more
postr/StutterJan 11, 2019
12 points

Have a job interview Wednesday... Thinking about canceling

Have a job interview Wednesday... Thinking about canceling I'm currently in my second year of college. I realized that I needed to start getting some experience to put on my resume for after I graduat...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 11, 2019
1 points

I always sat at the corner of the table, so the waiter/waitress could stand next to me and I didn't have to speak to loud. That always gave me confidence. Somehow I can order food now, no matter wher...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJan 11, 2019
1 points

Honestly, for me Iv found confidence is the best remedy. Iv had a roller coaster life and when things are bad my stutter intensifies like I’m 5 again but whent things are going good and I’m happy I ra...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Hope & MotivationHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJan 10, 2019
2 points

If I'm with my wife, we'll discuss my order before, and if I have an issue I'll pretend like I forgot and she'll jump in with "weren't you gonna get" to bail me out. If I'm alone I'll still pretend li...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJan 10, 2019
1 points

When it comes to fast food or take-out, I'll sometimes write down what I want and show it to the person I'm ordering from. Today I did that and the lady said it was easier that way, anyway (I was plac...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJan 10, 2019
5 points

This is always a solid go-to. You could also ask who you are with to order for you. Also, online ordering or kiosks are awesome for quick service places....

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJan 10, 2019
16 points

You could always try to sit closer to the waiter/waitress and point at the item on the menu. They will repeat what they think you want and you can nod and smile or say something then. This works well ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterJan 10, 2019
14 points

Stuttering when ordering

Stuttering when ordering Whenever I go to order food or ask somebody something, the first word always takes forever to come out. It is very annoying and embarrassing in public, as I just have a blank ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 9, 2019
1 points

Ah I'm in the US and started college this past fall. I think my advice would be to do as much as you can to gain confidence. This mostly means talking social risks such as talking to new people, going...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Hope & MotivationHiding & ConcealmentMindset shift
commentr/StutterJan 9, 2019
2 points

In grade school and high school l usually would not talk all day. When picked on, I would fight them, usually without saying a word....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJan 9, 2019
2 points

>if I were to force myself to speak, there would be a very high chance I would stutter. Sounds like you identified the crux of it. Stay quiet and don't stutter or speak and do. ...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJan 9, 2019
3 points

Well for me, I cope with my stutter with friends by making self deprecating jokes. You don't know where someone's boundaries lie. They'll probably think I'm making fun of them. Or they may not even be...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJan 8, 2019
6 points

I don’t really approach them. I mean if we happen to have a convo I don’t bring up that I also stutter (I’m a covert stutterer so if you didn’t know I stuttered you probably wouldn’t know). I just spe...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking