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commentr/StutterMar 4, 2024
5 points

Same here. I liked your quote; extrovert trapped inside an introvert. So true. Whenever I feel more confident the exotrover part of me come´s out and the stuttering diminish. Just like being alone. Y...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMar 4, 2024
3 points

It´s a good thing for sure. Not long ago I read a comment that goes like this: I don´t fear speaking, I fear stuttering. Many people think we have a fear of getting judge on our words and sure, some ...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterMar 4, 2024
4 points

Summer Program Presentation

Summer Program Presentation Hello, I am currently a sophomore in college with an opportunity to join a summer research program to make some money and gain experience. I am currently a part of a rese...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic Life+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 4, 2024
2 points

That’s exactly what’s been happening to me recently. And it’s like i stop myself from saying stuff in my dreams cuz I know im gonna stutter like why can’t I be free 😭...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Anxiety & Social JudgmentBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterMar 4, 2024
2 points

I've faced same issue all my life. We have social anxiety caused by the fear of stuttering in front of others. But last few years I've learnt several strategies to overcome this, and have been consist...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of LifeAdvice Requests
commentr/StutterMar 4, 2024
4 points

Basically I feel like I could have been much much more successful and have bigger influence on my friends, family and society if I didn't have this stutter. ​ That's not a fair statement to m...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Helplessness & AgencyAnxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/Flight
postr/StutterMar 4, 2024
19 points

I don't quite understand

I don't quite understand I stutter, but only if I am nervous or excited which is basically 90% of my time. I tried speaking out loud when I was alone and I spoke surprisingly fluent, so I figured tha...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
postr/StutterMar 3, 2024
10 points

Big presentation in 3 days

Big presentation in 3 days I've had my stutter my whole life(I'm 16), and it really does affect my life. I'm no less outgoing because of it but I don't participate a lot because whenever I have to spe...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringOverthinking & MonitoringSeverity & Fluctuation+3 more
commentr/StutterMar 3, 2024
5 points

I used to stutter alone or even on imaginary conversations, but it was on rare occasions. I had an experience in college when I was trying to make a video presentation for my class. I knew exactly ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social JudgmentTrauma & Psychological
commentr/StutterMar 3, 2024
1 points

I’ve thought travelling and a change of scenery would do good for me, but it was the opposite. People knew I was a tourist and were curious to know where I was from, but unfortunately I blocked on the...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Anxiety & Social JudgmentBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterMar 3, 2024
1 points

blocking at a loud bar on the dance floor is the worst, especially when you are talking to a stranger...

Speech & StutteringCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesEnvironmental TriggersAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 3, 2024
1 points

Yes I do, there is no escape for me. Last night I had a dream i was at some resort or something, and I went to order a drink at the bar, and I had the same sense of panic and anxiety I do in real life...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/Flight
postr/StutterMar 3, 2024
2 points

I start my speech communication class tomorrow, any experiences or tips?

I start my speech communication class tomorrow, any experiences or tips? Ngl this class has me worried a little bit. I have a mild stutter with the occasional block but I’m fairly decent when I’m comf...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAdvice RequestsAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 3, 2024
1 points

Great comment! Question: What can we do if we use affirmations suggested by OP, while desensitizing to such **pressure** that you pointed out? (e.g., **pressure** to speak more fluently, time **pressu...

Community & SupportCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Advice RequestsVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 3, 2024
2 points

If it works for you then it works for you. I personally find it adds too much pressure on myself that I absolutely *must* be fluent on a word as if I’d get shot down for it when I shouldn’t be! My aff...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 3, 2024
1 points

It's really difficult but learning to accept is a process that you have to work at overtime. The more you ignore that inner thought you have will become muscle memory to just ignore those bad thoughts...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterMar 3, 2024
1 points

I also felt like this growing up in school, I was never able to come to the conclusion if it was all in my head or not. I would try talking to the teacher honestly...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 3, 2024
3 points

What I meant by "changing my life radically" was to become a completely different person, physically and emotionally. But thinking about it, yes, as you said, it's not that easy. I understand that mo...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentLoneliness & IsolationSchool & Academic Life+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 3, 2024
5 points

I have a stutter that comes and goes, and it was worse when I was a kid. It's taken years of therapy and different techniques, and it's gotten better, but I still have trouble with blocked words. Once...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationFeared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
postr/StutterMar 3, 2024
7 points

Should I change my life radically?

Should I change my life radically? I'm tired of this shit. I'm tired of being in this high school, I wanna have a radical change. Let me explain: I'm Spanish and I am in the last year of Compulsory S...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+1 more