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commentr/StutterMay 22, 2023
1 points

Guess what, almost 100% of human beings are thinking sooner or later in their lifes about suicide. Mostly it is only for a brief moment and nothing serious. Among the stutterers is the % even higher. ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Suicidal Ideation & High DistressIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 21, 2023
2 points

I've worked as a volunteer in a few prisons. I stutter and met a few prisoners who stutter. What's the question?...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 21, 2023
3 points

Its a classic shit test that women do. If your a minority/POC/disabled expect women to make comments about it when your first meet them. Its a sign that she's attracted to you. It's a good sign shes t...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 20, 2023
1 points

I have a stutter and a degree? And before I started my professional career I was offered to be a manager at Hugo boss near my city without a degree. Try working in stock or something more backend focu...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 20, 2023
1 points

I gotta be honest with you, the worst thing you can do is blame your stutter for your life looking bad. People don't care as much as you think. You just gotta come to terms with the fact that it proba...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 20, 2023
7 points

Just thought I'd say, even if you could afford speech therapy, it doesn't mean you would've overcame your stutter. I was in therapy almost my entire life (23M) and I still stutter pretty bad, although...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityTherapy & Professional
Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 19, 2023
1 points

Its situation based mostly and also it can become habit bcoz of your repetitive behavior or mindset then you will also stutter on comfortable situations . Its deep-rooted , sub-concious mechanism of...

Identity & DisabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideLoss of Control
commentr/StutterMay 19, 2023
1 points

It's how it is. We can't go ahead and shine at great heights. This stutter kills your greatness and goals. You will learn to live a low profile and happy life surrounded by well supported people and m...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 18, 2023
1 points

I’ve found that the only thing only you back is yourself when it comes to dating. I’ve ruined my past relationships, not because of my stutter, but because of how my stutter affected me and my actions...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 18, 2023
3 points

Yup. Exactly the same as me. Its basically an intense fear of failing speech. This intense fear for failing speech, is ironically what makes us stutter or "fail speech". It's this anxiety loop we get...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & MonitoringIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 18, 2023
3 points

I don’t know of any strategies how to deal with these myself. After my stutter I just explain, that I do stutter.. It just helps me to remind myself that how I speak does not reflect my capabilities....

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacyCommunity & Support
Identity & Self-PerceptionSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterMay 17, 2023
2 points

>(3) I made a promise to myself to never apply the terminology 'feared letter' or 'I anticipate blocks' in my mind. In other words, I made a self-rule that I may never analyze or discuss anything r...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAvoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 17, 2023
2 points

This is my attempt to summarize your new YT video: Intro: * 13:42. When I speak to others who stutter, it makes me feel calmer. I'd ask myself: 'If I'd sound like this, what would I do myself?' (suc...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Identity & Self-PerceptionMindset shiftAvoidance & Substitution+2 more
commentr/StutterMay 17, 2023
2 points

I relate to this. It’s like being deaf in a world full of sounds. Blind in a world full of sights. Stuttering in a world full of socialisation. But everyone is born different, and we need to make the ...

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Identity & Self-PerceptionValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterMay 17, 2023
3 points

>Complete and utter desensitization and destigmatizing of your stutter. Thinking about your stutter ‘primes’ (or warms up) the stuttering part of your brain, making you more likely to stutter. It’s...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 17, 2023
9 points

Complete and utter desensitization and destigmatizing of your stutter. Thinking about your stutter ‘primes’ (or warms up) the stuttering part of your brain, making you more likely to stutter. It’s a s...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideIdentity & Self-PerceptionMindset shift
commentr/StutterMay 16, 2023
3 points

I always stutter worse when I'm worried about my stutter. But I'm also funny and good with people so I just let my personality make up for my fluency....

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Stress & Fight/FlightIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 16, 2023
2 points

39 year old male here. Persistent stutter since I was 7. The most impactful thing I ever did for myself was to start telling people exactly what was going on. I didn't do it until college, but I would...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 16, 2023
2 points

It's not some small inconvenience at all. And there is likely no cure during your lifetime. I'll never say this is easy, but ever since I started telling people, even strangers who just chuckled at ...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 16, 2023
2 points

I have a hard time believing enough people would commit to faking a stutter that it would hinder the government's ability to fund research. By best estimate, 3 million Americans stutter. That's not ma...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-PerceptionSeverity & Fluctuation