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postr/StutterJan 27, 2020
5 points

Getting a minimum wage job while in school is fucking hard

Getting a minimum wage job while in school is fucking hard I am currently a student at university. I have mild stuttering but it gets a little strong in interviews. I have a job now but it requires mi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
postr/StutterJan 26, 2020
4 points

Possible career

Possible career Hey everybody! First time on here. I’ve been trying to find a way to get around my stutter and try and get into voice acting. I get random blocks on random days with random parts of th...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 25, 2020
14 points

Yep. Even worse when someone didn't catch what I was saying and says, "what did you say?" Instant block every time....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Overthinking & MonitoringBlocks & Stoppages
postr/StutterJan 23, 2020
47 points

Just booked my 1st speaking engagement

Just booked my 1st speaking engagement A few weeks ago I submitted 2 papers to be reviewed as part of an application to speak at a medium-sized tech conference in Budapest in March. Well, one of my pa...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 20, 2020
1 points

I have a computer job too, and that’s exactly my problem. I need to present my project, or they did something to be done so they want to see me in a meeting ... im convinced they question my intellige...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJan 20, 2020
1 points

i'm in the same boat. mid 30s, i always thought i would grow out of my stutter. I have a computer based job that (imo) excel at but when i'm due to present my project in front of others, i struggle w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic Life+1 more
postr/StutterJan 20, 2020
11 points

I can’t say my name.

I can’t say my name. Im 29, been stuttering since im 8. I work for a big company and we’re always in meetings. I can talk just fine cause i developped a good technique, but when we have to introduce o...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
postr/StutterJan 19, 2020
4 points

Don't know what to say

Don't know what to say So I'm 26 male stutter mostly with blocks sometimes pretty badly but from time to time it get easier. Recently I went on a date with this girl and everything seemed to be ok I...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterJan 19, 2020
3 points

Really confusing

Really confusing Hope you all doing great I was just wondering why I have problem speaking ( Idk if it is stammering or stuttering or sth else) when talking to ppl or in the presence of ppl, but not ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
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commentr/StutterJan 19, 2020
1 points

Thanks for that well articulated reply, but I disagree with a lot of what you say. 1.Instead of 'don't think about stuttering', I think it's far more helpful if people with our condition divert thei...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringMindset shift+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 19, 2020
2 points

I think the best way to rephrase what you wrote into something that makes sense for me is: "I pay a lot of attention to how I'm speaking while I'm speaking". This is, of course, rather natural for s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringSeverity & FluctuationAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 19, 2020
2 points

I think perhaps your approach (in your question) is not put together right. Allow me to elaborate: - • For one, I don't think it's a good idea to tell ourselves "don't think about stuttering". We do...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringMindset shift+3 more
postr/StutterJan 18, 2020
7 points

weird brain activation

weird brain activation I tend to focus too hard on reading things out loud. The second I try to “dissociate” i somehow end up speaking almost perfectly fluently. This works too in normal conversation,...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringPropositionality & WeightAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterJan 15, 2020
10 points

Just found this sub reddit, finally got a place to rant about my test score

Just found this sub reddit, finally got a place to rant about my test score https://imgur.com/dDekBTa So I recently took the TOEFL exam, and bombed the Speaking section – no surprise there. Only prob...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
postr/StutterJan 15, 2020
9 points

Do you ever have "bad weeks"?

Do you ever have "bad weeks"? I've started a new job a couple of days ago and since then I've only had bad days. My stress and my anxiety is high and I can't barely talk to my workmates, which leads m...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/Flight+1 more
postr/StutterJan 15, 2020
13 points

I meet fellow stutter at university

I meet fellow stutter at university Hello folks, so yesterday, we had new transfer student meeting and professor wanted us to introduce each others, so i was last guy, students started introducing the...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterJan 15, 2020
13 points

Excellent communication skills requirement in jobs

Excellent communication skills requirement in jobs Currently looking for a job as I've finished uni and almost all jobs require you to have excellent communication skills. Its really frustrating when ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 14, 2020
2 points

what makes stuttering really really annoying to me is not knowing what's causing it ( ik it's a neurological disorder but that's not what i'm talking about ). We have good and bad days, i still can't...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Cycles & RandomnessAnxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterJan 14, 2020
10 points

You’re not overthinking. I like to think of our speech as a muscle and because of that our fluency can be shaped by how much we speak daily. For me, this works except for my name for some reason....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Overthinking & MonitoringSeverity & Fluctuation
postr/StutterJan 13, 2020
53 points

completely screwed up my presentation

completely screwed up my presentation Did a 10 minute presentation with a partner. Stuttered and blocked from start to finish. Stuttered to the point that my partner deliberately spoke on more powerpo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more