postr/StutterJanuary 19, 2020

Don't know what to say

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Don't know what to say So I'm 26 male stutter mostly with blocks sometimes pretty badly but from time to time it get easier. Recently I went on a date with this girl and everything seemed to be ok I wouldn't say it was a bad date and she was fine with me stuttering (even though I tried to control it as much as possible) My problem is over the years of stuttering I developed this mental block by trying to avoid conversations and don't have this social skills, I just don't know what to talk about. My head just feels empty and I feel a bit stressed around new people. I understand that bet way to improve it is just go out there and do it, but what else can I do to get better at conversations and being able to keep flow going.

Themes

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships

Subthemes

Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentFriendships & Belonging

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