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commentr/StutterJul 31, 2019
12 points

I didn't think I could become a public school teacher because of my stutter. The prospect of leading a class of 25 students was daunting. However, I worked not internalizing my stuttering. It took m...

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commentr/StutterJul 31, 2019
1 points

if anything i think going for a job that does involving talking but not to the point where it will result in you not being able to perform the job eg: tech hotline helper. You cant let this stutter di...

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commentr/StutterJul 30, 2019
1 points

Most of the time I just take a calm pause when I feel a block coming. I wait until I feel like I can say my sentence or have replaced my sentence with an easier one. Taking lots of space, sitting or ...

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commentr/StutterJul 30, 2019
1 points

Personally I think it's less about trying to "appear" confident, but rather building that confidence within yourself so it invariably becomes real. I'll go into situations where I'm talking clearly fo...

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commentr/StutterJul 29, 2019
8 points

I am not sure how to reconcile with this stuttering. I’ve been trying to deal with the stuttering for a long time. But, as times went by, I couldn’t get away from the feeling that I am a half person. ...

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commentr/StutterJul 29, 2019
2 points

i wish i could tell you it gets better, but it only gets better if you allow it to (mentally) but either way, what u posted, i tell myself and ask myself the same questions sometimes, so i get it. the...

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commentr/StutterJul 28, 2019
4 points

ride the fluency wave and capitalize on it. make good memories and talk more. it will help you build resilience and let you know that fluency is possible. Enjoy yourself....

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commentr/StutterJul 28, 2019
1 points

I felt like that a lot when I was a kid. Now, I'm really making an effort to be more social. My social and conversational skills are definitely behind those of my peers. However, I have been told that...

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commentr/StutterJul 27, 2019
5 points

In terms of identity, we change with our surroundings. This doesn't mean we become someone else, or something wrong. There may, of course, be some of these changes we don't like. My guess is that you ...

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commentr/StutterJul 27, 2019
10 points

Hey, you probably have started realizing that overall confidence and speaking are tightly connected so my suggestion is to start working on it. Also, it is a on-going never ending process, I'd sugg...

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commentr/StutterJul 20, 2019
3 points

In my opinion. People with a mild stutter wouldn’t be on forums like these. It would be impossible to do the Mcguire course and get nothing out of it. Prior to doing Mcguire I thought I knew everythin...

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commentr/StutterJun 29, 2019
1 points

What I meant by that is: you have to get out of your own head in order to liberate yourself from your stutter. Our ego inspires fear at times and self judgement. It can act as the source of so many of...

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commentr/StutterJun 28, 2019
1 points

I for one think this is great and RELATABLE. 😂 Although I do agree that hyping yourself up for a call and having a positive frame of mind key. You can do anything you set your mind to. As cliche as...

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commentr/StutterJun 24, 2019
2 points

It may not work for everyone, but I have tried The Daily Stoic (by Ryan Holiday and Stephen Hamselman) which is a book with daily meditations and passages to read. The general philosophy of stoicism ...

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commentr/StutterJun 21, 2019
3 points

Does it feel like an "impulsive" mood? Or maybe you just feel like "lol idc" even if you usually do.. ​ I'm not usually on that side of things but it does hit me from time to time.. I've...

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commentr/StutterJun 17, 2019
2 points

Not any more. It used to really bother me but I realised they're not always laughing at me per se, they're laughing because they're uncomfortable and don't know how to react. Once I realised this, t...

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commentr/StutterJun 16, 2019
2 points

I think stuttering helped me grow up. It also made me more polite and professional. I was an introvert when it used to weigh on me in high school, but as an adult I’ve become more extroverted again. T...

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commentr/StutterJun 15, 2019
1 points

Take a performance course. Stand up comedy, theatre, contemporary performance, - whatever. Just something, on stage with a play/piece of work to work towards that has a public showing. And don't try ...

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commentr/StutterJun 8, 2019
1 points

Get out of your comfort zone and push through your fears. If you do that enough, you should lose the anxiety associated with talking and hopefully gain more fluency. Good luck....

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commentr/StutterJun 7, 2019
16 points

Hmm, here's an observation for you: >**reality** knocks on the door and I **see myself** stutter so much in these interactions I just don’t go for them A thing hasn't happened before a thing has ...

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