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commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2023
4 points

My stuttering is worse than it's ever been and I have tried so much therapy that never lasts....I have tried so much thereapy that never lasts...for the first time in my life my inclination to avoid s...

Emotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Helplessness & AgencyShame & EmbarrassmentTherapy Experiences
commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2023
3 points

Its complicated. It hurt my confidence a lot to hear things during childhood like “I can’t understand half of what you say” “I need a break from your voice” or just laughter at my talking. It hurt my ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionDating & Romance
commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2023
10 points

It’s kind of killed my confidence and prevented a lot of my dating experiences. I probably stutter every fifth of so word but it’s not something people immediately notice so they chalk it up to sh...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentDating & RomanceIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterFeb 21, 2023
7 points

I just wanted to share my experience in my college class I had today, to show everyone we are not alone in this group.

I just wanted to share my experience in my college class I had today, to show everyone we are not alone in this group. So I was in my college class and there is 3 of us one of which i consider to be m...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & BullyingBlocks & Stoppages
postr/StutterFeb 21, 2023
19 points

I feel like I am crazy

I feel like I am crazy A few months ago I finally decided to go to a therapist and today i had my first appointment at a speech therapist. At both of those meetings I almost didn’t stutter, because we...

Emotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterFeb 20, 2023
52 points

Does anyone else feel like people don’t respect you because of your stutter?

Does anyone else feel like people don’t respect you because of your stutter? I feel like most people that I interact with don’t treat me like a grown, respectable man. I hate to have a victim mindset,...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerStigma & Bullying+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2023
6 points

Not really... I'm not the chatty type of person and I hate it when I have to contribute a lot to a conversation and that's what speech and language is about... I was just hoping to get some advice but...

Emotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Shame & EmbarrassmentTherapy ExperiencesHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2023
8 points

Exactly, it’s strange going for a normal drive to the store, then all the sudden an excruciatingly painful memory jumps out for no reason at all. It’s as if I’m there, reliving the sweating, heart pou...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Experiential AssociationShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterFeb 18, 2023
42 points

Was reading Dostoevsky and came across this line that immediately resonated with some of my worst stuttering memories that pop up sometimes.

Was reading Dostoevsky and came across this line that immediately resonated with some of my worst stuttering memories that pop up sometimes. “Every once in a while a thought pierced my heart with the ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentExperiential Association
commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2023
4 points

Girl sameee. I’ve been crying about my stutter a lot these past few days and I swear, before I was 11, I felt so happy and was surprisedly social. But I guess I grew more self conscious as I grew olde...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentSadness & HopelessnessHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2023
2 points

Not sure if I helped you at all.. But yeah, the truth is harsh for us, people who don't stutter will never understand. So I'd say, the sooner you stop caring as much, the better. But even then, some i...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2023
9 points

I get it and I agree. I'm tired of being perceived as slow and stupid, which is unfortunately still the way some people see PWSs. And the comments are even worse "diD YoU ForGeT YoUr NaMe?" Still, do...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & BullyingEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2023
9 points

That was hard to read because you're describing what it was like for me. It was at this time though that I went to speech therapy for the second time. I am Australian though, so it was free but if yo...

Therapy & ProfessionalEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Therapy ExperiencesShame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2023
12 points

I feel your pain, not being able to fully participate in a society is torturing at times. We're not really meant to be lonely, solitary, silent creatures. However it sounds like a large chunk of your ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2023
6 points

my mother stuttered too (it disappeared when she was around my age though) and she sees me as a burden. such mothers exist....

Emotional ExperienceParent & Caregiver
Shame & EmbarrassmentFamily Dynamics
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2023
2 points

Had this problem a lot in high school. Would take me a minute to say a joke and everyone would look around awkwardly and smile. I never found a solution to this even now in my adult life....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2023
1 points

Yes, it makes everything so much worse and more embarrassing. I tense up and close my eyes involuntarily and my mouth contorts, plus I have a bad habit of ducking my head a little bit when I'm trying ...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Physical TensionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2023
1 points

i felt this. i was in a group setting with my best friend and some friends we havent spoke to in a long time. the whole time i watched them all converse, i was so desperate to join in. soon as i did i...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2023
5 points

i call it ticking (think of tourettes). when i stutter my head will jerk to the side, i scrunch my face up and i mess around with my hands. its so awkward, a convo will be going okay and boom that hap...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Physical TensionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2023
5 points

I feel this so much. Joining in, failing, and just killing the vibe dead. I feel like I've now lost all ability to banter, because "things are funnier when I don't talk" has become so engrained in me...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentFriendships & Belonging