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commentr/StutterMar 2, 2023
6 points

It feels terrible. I always assumed people thought the same about me, while I worked with special needs kids. However, honestly, how is the receptionist supposed to know why we are making odd facial...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMar 2, 2023
4 points

I agree with the comment above. This happens more than us think, but they don't talk about it. I'm really sure that the most of people think we are retarded or something else....

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMar 2, 2023
3 points

I used to ask friends to order for me when I was in college. But I realized that's even more embarrassing. Much easier now to order at a sit-down place than at a counter, let alone a drive-thru. At l...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterMar 2, 2023
84 points

omg. For the first time someone mistook me as being mentally challenged and told other people so they all treated me that way

omg. For the first time someone mistook me as being mentally challenged and told other people so they all treated me that way I went to the dentist today. At check in, I got stuck saying my name(which...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Stigma & BullyingShame & EmbarrassmentListener Reactions
commentr/StutterMar 1, 2023
1 points

Yes, this encapsulates the entire stuttering experience perfectly. This is the reason why most of us suffer extreme anxiety in speaking situations and find it hard to accept ourselves. We have been l...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterMar 1, 2023
7 points

Yes, most definitely. My family always, always say I'm shy when they introduce me to their new friends. It annoys me so much. You have my sympathy!...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 1, 2023
2 points

I can understand your pain and I am sorry that other people can be so hurtful. I have stuttered and suffered from blocks for my entire life. I have tried to learn to give people some benefit of the do...

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Shame & EmbarrassmentValidation & Empathy
postr/StutterFeb 28, 2023
112 points

You get no fucking respect at all when you stutter

You get no fucking respect at all when you stutter The moment you stutter the person you are talking to looks at you like a freak. It is so condensing. People treat me like a special needs child. I re...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Stigma & BullyingShame & EmbarrassmentListener Reactions+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 27, 2023
16 points

What makes you think that the other people think you're an idiot? Maybe they don't? You're being too hard on yourself, I understand how frustrating having a stutter can be, but there is no benefit ga...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
postr/StutterFeb 27, 2023
28 points

mental breakdown

mental breakdown I just had a mental breakdown, I cried for tye first time in 2 years and why? Because I couldn't say a fucking word. I'm a pathetic loser I know, crying over a fucking word. I just ca...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerShame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2023
2 points

Good two cents. I'd have preferred to not have spoken, but everyone is different. Any opportunity to avoid the embarrassment associated with disclosing my stuttering, would have been appreciated....

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Shame & EmbarrassmentSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2023
2 points

If life was a musical, one would think out life would be so much easier. But, I can't sing for shit and would be ostracised for that instead! LOL Fuck my life......

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Situational VariabilityShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2023
2 points

i'm an 18 year old girl who also has a lot of confidence issues because of my stutter and i got into substance abuse because i feel unable to be happy and outgoing without running away from myself, bu...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceMeds & Substances
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commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2023
1 points

I appreciate your words of wisdom bro and I’m glad you met people in your life who accepted you and loved you for you being yourself. But deep down I just don’t think those things are meant to happen ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
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commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2023
2 points

This post really hit home for me. I had a lot of those same fears and insecurities in my teens and into my 20s. Honestly, I think everyone who stutters has felt this way. I always saw girls I wanted t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2023
1 points

I’m sorry you feel that way. I think taking a step back from pursuing and charming potential dates is a good idea, but not for the reason you think. Trying too hard doesn’t work for most men when it c...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2023
1 points

I understand young being a factor but at the same time I know that I was the only reason I kept constantly getting rejected and I’m totally fine with that. I thought back on it and I realized that may...

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commentr/StutterFeb 24, 2023
1 points

Thanks for asking. I began stuttering at about age 4-5. I remember being the “apple of my parents’ eye” before that. I felt adored. At about age 4, my eye muscle turned in and with the stutter, I was ...

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Trauma & PsychologicalIdentity & Self-PerceptionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterFeb 24, 2023
-1 points

Was told in college by my crush that nobody would want to be with a PWS because women don't want to be with a genetically compromised person. So yeah, still single, don't even try. All my attempts hav...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2023
3 points

I have absolutely no confidence because my stuttering is so very very bad....!!! I have gone through enough therapies with no lasting success....it's hopeless and I always have suicide on my mind...I ...

Emotional Experience
Suicidal Ideation & High DistressHelplessness & AgencyShame & Embarrassment