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commentr/StutterApr 3, 2023
8 points

Great post! Absolutely, self-acceptance is hard but we should aim for it regardless, in order to break out of the vicious circle. **In my opinion**: self-acceptance is the ability to embrace and love...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Acceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment+1 more
postr/StutterApr 3, 2023
31 points

Worn down, unable to achieve self-acceptance

Worn down, unable to achieve self-acceptance Now I am older, I don't have any interactions that feel like big traumatic wounds to be replayed over and over again as a result of having a speech impedim...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger+3 more
postr/StutterApr 3, 2023
17 points

glad so have found this subreddit

glad so have found this subreddit im a 20 yo who has been stuttering since i was about 6-7. my entire life has revolved arround my stuttering and had been a huge burden on me. school was always stre...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 2, 2023
1 points

Its sad, but we can say this all day long, but execution of postive self reinforcement is easier said than done. Whenever i have a negative stutter expierence, it will linger in my head at some capac...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 1, 2023
5 points

that's true, being unbothered = i'm winning. but for some reason, I couldn't shake off the weird feeling i felt. the moment just kept replaying in my head, jeez....

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterMar 31, 2023
8 points

Trying to read aloud and the words won’t come out

Trying to read aloud and the words won’t come out I consider myself to have a mild stutter, lately it’s been severe. It usually comes in waves, sometimes it’s hard to get some words out, but I’m prett...

Emotional ExperienceMeds & Substances
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & AgencyShame & Embarrassment+1 more
postr/StutterMar 30, 2023
61 points

Stuttered my way out of a well-paid job opportunity. I hate my life

Stuttered my way out of a well-paid job opportunity. I hate my life Last week on Saturday I went to do a speaking test for a interpreter/translator job. By the odds it would be my highest paid job so ...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Frustration & AngerShame & EmbarrassmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMar 30, 2023
1 points

I've gone through this and still go through it , just that you just need to develop a thick skin and not give a f#ck attitude what others think ....

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterMar 30, 2023
23 points

Hopeless

Hopeless Hello, so I had made a post a couple days ago but I feel that it is important for me to just vent on how I feel. This may come out as negative or hopeless but this is the state I am in. I hav...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & AgencyShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 29, 2023
2 points

Didn’t knew it was common. I thought I was the one who was facing this didn’t knew it was with many individuals. It feels embarrassing from school time that I can’t say my name correct. Now It’s easie...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMar 29, 2023
6 points

I mean, that sucks, your mother sounds callous, and obviously anyone with a stutter can empathize, but it sounds like the stutter and its consequences -were- the reason why you left. There’s nothing w...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 29, 2023
4 points

All the time! I say to people without a stutter that proper nouns of any kind are the worst for me. There's no synonym for my name, the city I live in, etc. that I can substitute in if I'm blocking or...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesShame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterMar 28, 2023
7 points

Not applying for scholarships. I likely wouldn’t have gotten any, which was my reasoning for not applying. I really wish I did apply though because maybe I could’ve gotten one or at least said I trie...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterMar 28, 2023
14 points

Is forcing my way through my stutter during public speaking situations a good idea?

Is forcing my way through my stutter during public speaking situations a good idea? **Hi** all, im 16 m and and high school. I always find that I want to speak up during class or answer a question for...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & MonitoringShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 27, 2023
2 points

Yes. Honestly ‘acceptance’ is like… the worst feeling in the world. It’s not a feel good moment. It’s the realization that your worst fear might actually be your reality. Your hope for fluency is bein...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & PrideHope & Motivation
postr/StutterMar 27, 2023
22 points

Advice needed

Advice needed Hi everyone, 1st time poster here. I am a life-long stutterer and I went to a new dentist today and noticed that he also stutters as well. I was fluent during the whole appt and at the ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterMar 26, 2023
7 points

What are your thoughts on elongating the start of the sentence while talking to reduce blocks??

What are your thoughts on elongating the start of the sentence while talking to reduce blocks?? I have been trying to follow this method,but i seem to miserably fail when trying to talk to other perso...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Fluency TechniquesAvoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterMar 24, 2023
1 points

Have to give my first ever presentation in English Class on a word that best describes me, i chose "Restraint"(Big mistake btw). How should i handle the anxiety while presenting, have this fear that my delivery would suck and i wont able to finish it.

Have to give my first ever presentation in English Class on a word that best describes me, i chose "Restraint"(Big mistake btw). How should i handle the anxiety while presenting, have this fear that m...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic LifeShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMar 24, 2023
2 points

My dad does this sometimes, but it's extremely obvious that he is uncomfortable. I'm actually someone that has a pretty bad nervous laugh, so I guess I get it from him, but when I am nervously laughin...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterMar 23, 2023
4 points

Sometimes I still feel that way but I have to challenge myself to think about it differently when I start to feel it. Stuttering is a part of me as much as I wish it wasn’t so all I can do is try to s...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideFluency TechniquesShame & Embarrassment