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commentr/StutterJul 31, 2023
4 points

My first job was at a gas station. I remember I was so nervous because of my stutter. I didn't do really well on the cashier so they made me do the cleaning šŸ˜… (cleaning shelves, restrooms, mopping, s...

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commentr/StutterJul 31, 2023
3 points

Don't panic and overthink. You only feed a stuttering mindset by doing this. I know that it's easier said than done. I had blocks on my name and it went away after a few successful introductions becau...

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commentr/StutterJul 31, 2023
1 points

I really don't agree, or at least for me personally. I've alwase been very social and friendly, but stuttering just has a death grip over my life, like a mental cage. If that were to be lifted then I ...

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commentr/StutterJul 30, 2023
3 points

😁 not at all my friend, not only i used it for my name but for my sons name, what i do is a pause so either people say did u forget ur name or ur sons name, or did you really have to think about it ,...

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commentr/StutterJul 30, 2023
8 points

Same, however when i block people assume that because im a foreigner not knowing the language😁 so if i want to say the word "table" instead of blocking i will pretend that i forgot how is it called i...

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commentr/StutterJul 30, 2023
6 points

As long as we make stuttering a battle it seems to get worse. I was a pro athlete and tried bringing the same mentality to overcoming stuttering, it failed miserably and actually would worsen. It’s mo...

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postr/StutterJul 30, 2023
79 points

Has anyone felt like half a person because of their stuttering?

Has anyone felt like half a person because of their stuttering? I've always felt like I'm half a person walking around. I don't have the freedoms to do what everyone else does, nor do I have the freed...

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commentr/StutterJul 29, 2023
1 points

Same here. People think i’m fluent because I don’t stutter on many words and can sometimes avoid stuttering on those words....

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postr/StutterJul 29, 2023
3 points

New Stuttering?

New Stuttering? Hello everyone, I wanted to introduce myself. I am 28 years old and had language problems since I was a child. As a child I had to go to a language school because I couldn't pronounc...

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commentr/StutterJul 29, 2023
2 points

If I'll buy this thing I'll probably feel like I can't talk at all instead of stuttering and from my prospective it worse...

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commentr/StutterJul 29, 2023
19 points

I’m a female stutterer. I was very opinionated and extroverted when I was young. I was dimly aware of my stutter but was absolutely certain it would go away when I got older because I’d never heard an...

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commentr/StutterJul 29, 2023
3 points

Big +1, it was doing this that robbed my stutter of it's power. I allowed myself the humanity to express my annoyance at it and even the humor in it. Blocking is annoying, getting stuck on one single ...

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commentr/StutterJul 29, 2023
24 points

As a woman who stutters: yes, it affected me a lot. I’m not ugly but not a supermodel, and the stuttering and social anxiety made it really hard....

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commentr/StutterJul 29, 2023
10 points

I was very much an introvert when I was younger either that or I’ve always been an extrovert but I just couldn’t show it because I was painfully shy and would just opt to be selectively mute at times ...

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commentr/StutterJul 28, 2023
8 points

Before the presentation even begins I would say to get it out of the way and let everyone know "I Stutter". Being upfront about the entire thing that's causing the fear and anxiety for us is going to ...

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commentr/StutterJul 27, 2023
2 points

Perhaps admit you stutter and sometimes you struggle on your name? The best answer for you is the one which probably frightens you most but you know you'll grow by doing it (give a fake name won't do ...

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commentr/StutterJul 27, 2023
1 points

In my experience, very very rarely do people comment on my stutter or take issue with it. In fact I'm not sure it's happened at all in adulthood to my knowledge. What's far more important is the vibe...

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commentr/StutterJul 27, 2023
2 points

Agree with you 100%. Sounds like a scare tactic and can cause way more harm than good… - the Maguire programme I might add focuses on the importance of ā€˜relapsing’ and how prominent it is because it C...

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commentr/StutterJul 27, 2023
1 points

One thing you may or may not find useful: don't congratulate yourself when you have fluency (no matter how rare it may be). It's the flip side of shame, and both of them probably contribute to the "t...

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Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterJul 27, 2023
2 points

Yk, I read a really helpful article last night about stuttering and talking to people. One of the points it had, which I thought was great advice, "If you show it doesn't bother you, then why should i...

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