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commentr/StutterOct 6, 2023
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I'm 28 and can't say alphabets let alone words and I've taught in schools before, just let it rip but don't let it diminish your worth, easy to say I know, once in a while greeting a passerby is impos...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterOct 6, 2023
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I live my life in constant fear of stress and conflict

I live my life in constant fear of stress and conflict The title explains it but it’s actually ruinous because I can’t do anything that puts me even slightly out of my comfort zone without fearing exp...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
postr/StutterOct 5, 2023
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Holding Back

Holding Back Stuttering is holding back. Immediately you ask youself: ¿Holding back WHAT? ¿What is it we do not want to experience that we hold back with all our strength? I think is our feelings. O...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 5, 2023
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Oddly enough my brother in law (33) also has ADHD and was recently prescribed Ritalin. In terms if helping him focus he said it was amazing and he loves it. Speaking to my mother in law recently she s...

Meds & SubstancesAnticipation & Avoidance
Harmful Med OutcomesStimulants & CaffeineHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterOct 5, 2023
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I'm miserable

I'm miserable I have been stammering for years now, but it's been really affecting me this year. I've been losing relationships at work and school because i can't say anything without struggling for a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentSeverity & FluctuationSadness & Hopelessness+1 more
postr/StutterOct 5, 2023
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Funding Support for PWS

Funding Support for PWS Hello everyone. I am sorry to digress but I had a situation last week where I was invited to do a business pitch for my business so that it can be selected for funding. I did 2...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/FlightPropositionality & Weight+2 more
postr/StutterOct 5, 2023
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My internal dialogue is soooo much better than my speaking it makes me sad

My internal dialogue is soooo much better than my speaking it makes me sad Im funny asf but i have to change 75% of the stuff i say or not say it at all, it fucking sucks man...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterOct 5, 2023
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Feeling a little nervous

Feeling a little nervous Received a call for an interview. I've to travel quite far. I've not travelled that far and I don't mind doing it but my speech blocks make me anxious and turns me into a diff...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/Flight+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 4, 2023
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I'm my experience they do not understand. I don't think any fluent person unless someone they know has struggled can overcome the ignorance fluent people enjoy. (This comment turned into a VENT hope...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentHumor & Community Tone+1 more
postr/StutterOct 4, 2023
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¿Do we fear autorithy?

¿Do we fear autorithy? Today I went to a shop to deliver some samples of my business. A nice lady attended me. Everything went good. Not completely fluent because I was nervous but at least 80%. Sud...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 4, 2023
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Hey buddy. I agree. Traditional Speech Therapist are usually not the prefer way to go for what I have encounter. There are some exceptions of course. There are even some therapist that stutter themsel...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentMedicalization / NeurodiversityOverthinking & Monitoring
postr/StutterOct 4, 2023
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I think I’m at the end of my rope

I think I’m at the end of my rope I’ve been feeling extra hope less lately. Like my life is just a shit show of social anxiety and not being able to speak like a normal person. I’m only 21 but someti...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & Hopelessness+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 4, 2023
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1. This is blatant misinformation and an OPINION. There is quite a bit of research on stuttering. We have a lot more now than we ever did and a great deal of success in treating stuttering throug...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Medicalization / NeurodiversityHiding & ConcealmentAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterOct 4, 2023
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Basic terminology that we must learn.

Basic terminology that we must learn. Hello ppl, I've been stuttering all my life. A few things I have learnt from my experiences (& from the internet recently) that I would like to share with AL...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterOct 3, 2023
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I get that it would be WAY easier with a keyboard, and WAY faster. In my opinion though, using a keyboard puts a barrier in that 'face to face' scenario. This is how I usually go about it. First t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentPreparation & Rehearsal+3 more
postr/StutterOct 3, 2023
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Not knowing how to handle this

Not knowing how to handle this Being a teacher with speech blocks is such a difficult task. Especially, teaching English, it's impossible to go on in the midst of so many people who don't have any iss...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringTrauma & Psychological+3 more
postr/StutterOct 3, 2023
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i can’t do this anymore

i can’t do this anymore my stutter is ruining my life and my mental health… i thought i could just accept it and try to embrace it but i just can’t anymore… i’m at a point in my life where i don’t eve...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentSeverity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterOct 2, 2023
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Speaking From The Heart

Speaking From The Heart It is hard to describe what "speaking from the heart" means. Maybe is better understood this way. ¿What is the opposite of speaking from the heart? Surely it is to **speak wit...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterOct 2, 2023
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courtship breakup

courtship breakup Man 27 years old Colombia sorry for my English I recently broke up with my girlfriend. I have several thoughts that make me nervous. \- how difficult it is to meet women because of...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
postr/StutterOct 2, 2023
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Has " trying not to stutter " ever been a technique that has worked for you?

Has " trying not to stutter " ever been a technique that has worked for you? I find that the best/smoothest conversations I have are spontaneous ones. Where someone will suddenly start talking to me, ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+2 more