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postr/StutterJul 14, 2023
17 points

Is there any scientifically-backed evidence that speech therapy improves fluency or is it 100% anecdotal nonsense?

Is there any scientifically-backed evidence that speech therapy improves fluency or is it 100% anecdotal nonsense? 13+ years of various speech therapy. I paid thousands to go to HCRI in Virginia and i...

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commentr/StutterJul 14, 2023
2 points

My stutter got worse when I started graduate school as well. I was quite nervous especially because I was an international student in a new country. And yes, I completely understand feeling down becau...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
School & Academic LifeAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterJul 13, 2023
6 points

The paradox of choice

The paradox of choice "Just throw away your fear bro" let's say I talk to my family whenever I want, I don't hold back anything and I stutter regardless. This seems good to y'all right? But what if I ...

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commentr/StutterJul 13, 2023
3 points

I think you're being a little too harsh on yourself. The average 23 year old is also anti social because they are broke. 20s are hard times. You're learning about everything in life in addition you al...

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Helplessness & AgencyQuality of Life
postr/StutterJul 13, 2023
41 points

How did you guys stop being cowards and start living life?

How did you guys stop being cowards and start living life? I'm about 23 and it seems I have social anxiety. I prefer spending time alone at home, I'm actually starting to hate it. I have dreams of tr...

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commentr/StutterJul 12, 2023
5 points

How to not give a fuck when you literally cann´t say a single word when it is needed? Like "ok i just wont answer your question and ignore you"?...

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commentr/StutterJul 12, 2023
2 points

I know that once I break down the barricade and talk to my friends about it, they'll most definitely be fine about because if they arent, then they're not really friends and I shouldn't hang out with ...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 12, 2023
2 points

The being perceived as weak to me is only a minor issue because everyone who stutters is strong in a way because we have dealt with this and kept pushing forward no matter how bad the sadness and self...

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Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJul 11, 2023
1 points

I have a partner who stutters, but it doesn't impact his life. I, however, have a chronic illness that (on most days lately atm), stops me from doing basic tasks. All I can do is cancel plans with fri...

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commentr/StutterJul 11, 2023
1 points

I have a partner who stutters, but it doesn't impact his life. I, however, have a chronic illness that (on most days lately atm), stops me from doing basic tasks. All I can do is cancel plans with fri...

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postr/StutterJul 11, 2023
27 points

So I'm clinically depressed?

So I'm clinically depressed? Stuttering makes life pointless, I wanna get ripped to impress people so I can have FRIENDS. I wanna learn Mandarin Chinese because it's useful and I can meet more people ...

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commentr/StutterJul 11, 2023
0 points

Ok man. Guess I really don't belong anywhere, I really should just kick the bucket since it's never getting better....

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commentr/StutterJul 11, 2023
3 points

You're allowed to feel whatever you feel. Other people being relentlessly positive is no good when you're in that place. I've been there. On the other hand, when people have been through loads of s...

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commentr/StutterJul 10, 2023
10 points

No. Plenty of people will trade you their disabilities. Life isn’t fair. You get dealt cards and you play your hand. What does being miserable accomplish. No body likes being around a negative person...

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Helplessness & AgencyFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2023
1 points

😂he lived half of his life already and it's too late to make friends cuz most people have established friend groups already and don't really have the time to socialize since they have families and ot...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Loneliness & IsolationHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2023
0 points

I feel the same. Also you have a few English errors. I'm a native speaker and my grammar sucks cuz I don't know how to use punctuation lol. But you said " I don't have any good advice to stutters." It...

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postr/StutterJul 10, 2023
34 points

Am I allowed to be miserable with a stutter?

Am I allowed to be miserable with a stutter? I'm noticing that the general vibe I get from this subreddit is that we need to be happy no matter what because we choose to be depressed or some shit. Thi...

Emotional Experience
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & AgencyAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2023
8 points

Well that's the main reason i don't write here, besides my bad english (i'm from spain). I'm a loser too, my life is sad and don't have any good advice to stutters. 40 years, no friends, live alone, v...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
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commentr/StutterJul 10, 2023
1 points

I am M26. I am still single. I had many crush in my college life/school life and also now in my work life. I have never been able to talk with them because I stutter a lot. Talking to girls is even mo...

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commentr/StutterJul 10, 2023
16 points

I'm 31 and unfortunately my life is literally in the shitter. Severe Stuttering has literally ruined my life..I'm doing my part & seeking therapy & trying meds out that could help. But in the ...

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