Am I allowed to be miserable with a stutter?

Am I allowed to be miserable with a stutter? I'm noticing that the general vibe I get from this subreddit is that we need to be happy no matter what because we choose to be depressed or some shit. This toxic positivity is even infiltrating my mind. "Oh your sad that you can't get any friends cuz your too afraid of what they will think about your stutter? That's pathetic as fuck, just stop being afraid most people don't care" "oh people keep rejecting you? That's not true your just to insecure about it and worry to much and if they did reject you then it's your fault because they didn't like you. Just try again"! It's like y'all always have that "get the fuck up and try again soldier" mentality. But it reaches a point where you realize all that struggle And fighting against yourself just for friends isn't worth it and you would rather be lonely than fucking want to kill yourself everytime you talk to someone because your anxiety is through the roof. " What your suggesting for people to give up? What are we supposed to do, rot in self pity? Your sad asf man" no I'm suggesting that y'all stop pushing people to their limits and let them do a self evaluation whether they want to keep struggling or just give up. Cuz some people will just hit rock bottom and stare down a fucking shotgun barrel until they realize they didn't have to fight themselves for so long.